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2'nd Session With My Therapist


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Guest Emily_MI

I was with my Therapist yesterday and it really went well, she is has a unique perspective since she is a TS as well(Post OP) which has been very helpful to be able to talk with someone who has gone though what I am going through right now, she has been VERY helpful so far and has given me some encouragement about when(if?) I do decide to transition more. She was saying that because of the lack of prominent male physique that I could(with work of course and when I start taking hormones and those take effect) that I can easily pass and be a very beautiful Woman(which is always a great thing to hear). I only understand this is just the beginning stages of my Journey but I think it is VERY encouraging to me that when I hear compliments like this it only helps me build my confidence and reinforces my decision in what I am doing is right for me and will make me happy in life.

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Guest Donna Jean

Well, good for you, Honey!

I'll bet that you felt great being told that you have the physique that can be built on in transition and make for a beautiful woman!

And her being TS gives her very special insight into all that she talks to you about!

So wonderful!

And the very best of luck to you, Sweetie.....keep us posted!

****HUGGS****

Donna Jean

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That is wonderful!

Yes, the compliments and encouragement are so good for you.

We all worry about if we will ever be able to pass so hearing that we will is just what we need.

My therapist asked me how I managed to pass as male for so long. :D

So I know just how you felt when she told you you would be a very beautiful woman - remember that moment and carry it with you on your journey, it will get you over any rough spots.

Love ya,

Saly

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Guest Emily_MI

Yes it is very exciting to hear such encouragement, I know we all worry about if we will be able to *pass* which trust me is one of my biggest fears especially when starting out, but as time goes by and I learn to do my make up better, getting laser hair removal, or when I start on my HRT and those start really taking effect I am sure those fears will gradually disappear. I can't believe in how excited I am getting already(and I really have not started my Journey until recently) and I can't imagine what just a year down the road may hold for me. :D

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Guest Elizabeth K

That news is so GREAT!

Beautiful, right? That is a wonderful encouragement. I all I got was 'attractive" - yikes!

Keep us posted

Lizzy

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Guest Emily_MI
That news is so GREAT!

Beautiful, right? That is a wonderful encouragement. I all I got was 'attractive" - yikes!

Keep us posted

Lizzy

lol, Yes *Beautiful* were her words not mine! :P, she was also said from her initial observations about me that I have long legs, fairly soft skin(without any help as of yet), a soft voice and once I start to fully transition and either get on HRT and possibly some FFS(not a lot though she said) I would be a total knockout(lol, again her words).

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lol, Yes *Beautiful* were her words not mine! :P, she was also said from her initial observations about me that I have long legs, fairly soft skin(without any help as of yet), a soft voice and once I start to fully transition and either get on HRT and possibly some FFS(not a lot though she said) I would be a total knockout(lol, again her words).

I AM NOT JEALOUS - I AM NOT JEALOUS - I AM NOT JEALOUS

Second time today I had to write that!

Loves you

Lizzy

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