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Hi every body. Well I have some wonderful news. For those who have been following thanks for everything. Well in my last post under nervous nervous nervous I was in Fort Wayne Indiana and did not return home until yesterday. Well when I got home the SO was out but on the dining room table was a card and a present. This past June 9th was my birthday but never got anything from her. We did go shopping that day and we had been in the lingerie section at Kohls and in another post I said I felt like she was watching me. Well she certainly was. In the package was one of the very bras and panties I had been looking at. I could believe it. Correct size and the same color I looked at. I opened the card and she wrote such a beautiful letter. I just stood there and cried my eyes out. Well I went and tried them on and oh how pretty they looked. I felt so feminine. I didn't wear them long I didn't want her to see me dressed because this had been a request from her early on. I had been home for about an hour when she returned. I gave her a great big hug and kiss and told her how much I loved her. She said well I guess you found the card and present and I said yes I did. She explained that she had been doing research on crossdressers and found out most of the things I had said to her were was what she was reading. Said she has a better understanding of what her and I have been going through. Some people cuss the Internet. I say God bless it. She also said she had looked through my other things so she could get the right size. She's still not ready to see me dressed but has a better understanding of what a crossdresser goes through. What a glorious day. So here's to life and the pursuit of happiness. God bless each and everyone here. Hugs hugs hugs and more hugs. Amber.

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That's great to hear! It's always wonderful when the people we care about show so much acceptance. :)

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That's great that she took the effort to do some research on her own. You should be proud and happy!

Jani

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That is wonderful Amber! Being honest with those we love and having them respond so beautifully might be the best present anyone could get.

Hugs,

Charlize

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You have just brought tears Amber - I just felt I was there - so wonderful!

Tracy x

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Good morning wvweyone. Still swimming in all the excitement. Thank you Tracy for all your support. Talk about the weight of the world no longer on my back. After all these years I truely feel free. It's like a rebirth. Better get going. It's going to be a beautiful day. Hugs. Amber.

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Guest BobbiLee

So happy for you!! I hope one day that same thing will happen here when she surprises me too!! I have a tear as well!!!

Bobbi

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Guest Eve Caillard

Such wonderful news Amber! You sound SO happy! I feel so much for you! What a wonderful breakthrough! :)

I shall keep fingers and toes crossed for you!

Big hugs,

Eve

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Guest AshleighP

Awesome news! So happy for you, and so glad she was patient and took the time to try to understand. I pray for the day when my wife would buy me a present like that! It seems that whatever you're doing in your relationship, it's working. Keep it up.

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