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Guest Angelica Alice

I was wondering is there are any crossdressers out there who roleplay when they crossdress just to make it more fun. If so, what do you roleplay as??

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When i crossdressed i did on occasion take on the maid job at home when my wife was out. Somehow the outfit made the hours of housecleaning much more bearable.

Hugs,

Charlize

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When i crossdressed i did on occasion take on the maid job at home when my wife was out. Somehow the outfit made the hours of housecleaning much more bearable.

Hugs,

Charlize

lol I was totally gonna say that that's an outfit I would wanna try at some point like for cosplaying or something or even roleplaying.

I don't think I'm a crossdresser, but it seems appealing.

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You can Cross Dress even if you are Transgender or in line for the whole shebang. Don't let wanting to transition stop you from having fun. My Halloween picture in my gallery is actually a skirt and top I can wear any time. A different wig changes me from concert singer to comic character with the same clothing.

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I no longer have a female in my life to take a masculine role. It was fun while it lasted. Even though I'm strong, I may have a streak of damsel in distress in me. Giggle

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You can Cross Dress even if you are Transgender or in line for the whole shebang. Don't let wanting to transition stop you from having fun. My Halloween picture in my gallery is actually a skirt and top I can wear any time. A different wig changes me from concert singer to comic character with the same clothing.

That's good point. :o

There are lots of interesting outfits I'd like to try for fun. :P

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Few of us would call what we do roleplaying but, more like letting the girl inside out. Any roleplaying is more like a coverup so others don't notice how much we are the other gender. I and many of my friends are different people in each mode and become the gender we are presenting. Its called bi-gender. Most of us want to be taken seriously and not treated like were playing a game. Unless others accept the gender we're presenting its as un comfortable as it is trans* people.

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Few of us would call what we do roleplaying but, more like letting the girl inside out. Any roleplaying is more like a coverup so others don't notice how much we are the other gender. I and many of my friends are different people in each mode and become the gender we are presenting. Its called bi-gender. Most of us want to be taken seriously and not treated like were playing a game. Unless others accept the gender we're presenting its as un comfortable as it is trans* people.

I'm going to ask a (maybe) controversial question, but I mean it out of genuine curiosity and I'm not bashing any gender identity or implying anything.

If you consider yourself to be a crossdresser, but identify as the gender that you present yourself as in public, than what's the difference between that and other trans people doing what they do? In other words, is it the label that you give yourself and whether or not you actually identify as your presenting gender that makes it crossdressing? I don't know how to explain what I mean. I may have misunderstood what you said though. I thought that crossdressing was presenting as a gender but not literally identifying yourself as that gender on a personal level. But if in your case, you're saying you're "bi-gender" then... is it still crossdressing? I'm so confused. Haha. I guess I'm looking for the line between what's considered crossdressing and what's considered trans. I thought I knew, but I'm not sure.

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I don't think in most cases there are clear lines for every phase. It's more of a blurred evolution individual to each person's journey.

I see. :o

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Perhaps somewhat different than role playing but has similarities is the variation of feminine dress.

I do like dressing up but have not taken part in roleplay as such. I just tend to change my clothes several times a day. For example from nightdress to pyjamas when I first get up. Maybe then to cycling gear when I go out on my bike. Skimpy top and shorts later when around home. Maybe a dress or skirt when I am shopping. Back to pyjamas in the evening before I finally change to a nighty before bed. It is not a role as such, just wearing what feels right for the time / mood. When I think back to purely male days and wearing the same all day, or perhaps work clothes then change for home (and just remove all for bed), I just think how much better things feel now.

Tracy

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Guest Clair Dufour

Crossdressing as a fetish or the lark of a boy in a skirt is one thing, dressing and presenting as the other gender is more of a trans* idenity. Most bi-gendered people are comfortable in both genders and like being both. Of course, were talking about gay and bi fem men who are comfortable in the LGBT community and have a lot less gender demons to deal with.

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Crossdressing as a fetish or the lark of a boy in a skirt is one thing, dressing and presenting as the other gender is more of a trans* idenity. Most bi-gendered people are comfortable in both genders and like being both. Of course, were talking about gay and bi fem men who are comfortable in the LGBT community and have a lot less gender demons to deal with.

I see. :o

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Guest Eve Caillard

I don't know what I can add to this. But as a CD, all I want to do is escape my male role and accommodate "the inner squidgy" that is my softer, inner female. I can't role play it. It's real. I dress because that's who I am, not because I want to role play.

That said, it's a good and valid question. Perhaps my problem is that role play is something I cannot do at any moment in my life. It seems so...artificial.

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I am with this guy that I dress for and have sex with.  We role play all the time.  I might be a patient and he's the Doctor.  Ive been the young 18 year old college girl at home and get caught by my step daddy watching porn, Or i might be the maid...etc.etc.etc.

I am very strong guy and an alpha male as such, being a retired Marine and all.  When I am Tanya, I am a submissive weaker girl and like to be manhandled or have the man be in control

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