I've had a good morning

[Guest]

I posted this in another forum but want to share it here. 

 

My wife and I have been together fo a very long time. I love her dearly and value our relationship highly. I have enjoyed women's clothing, particularly under clothing, even longer than I have known my wife. The desire to underdress has come and gone over the years, being absent for long periods of time. She has known of my interests but did not want to be involved.

After some years of absence the desire to dress came back incredibly strongly about a year and a half ago. I became interested in full crossdressing including dresses, skirts, wigs, makeup etc. it was triggered by a stressful health event. As I have read here from others, growing older also seems to increase the desire. 

With good reason I was concerned about how this would impact our relationship as the pink mist was dense. She said she did not mind but did not want to see me dressed. It came out over time that she did not mind if I underdressed or wore nighties to bed. I was very uncomfortable with the whole thing and in my discomfort and embarrassment retreated fully into the closet. 

Recently I was feeling quite down and found real solace in dressing. Finally I felt I had no choice but to take her at her word, deal with my discomfort, and wore a nightie to bed. In the morning we talked about a variety of things including how much wearing a nightie comforts me. We snuggled a little and it felt wonderful!  

So I am in bed this morning, in a nightie, believing for the first time that I can wear a nightie, expose my softer side, and she will still love me. I am a happy man.

[Charlize]

That is a wonderful story.  I have known that wonderful acceptance by my wife as well. I'm glad you now have.  Nothing better.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

[Guest AshleighP]

Thanks for sharing. I struggle with some of the same issues. My wife knows but doesn't want to see me dressed. Good for you for getting past that uncomfortable feeling and wearing what you want to bed. The satisfaction outweighs the uncomfortableness I'm sure.

[Briana]

Hi Erica, it sounds like you and your wife have found a happy medium.  That's a good thing and who know's where it may go or lead to.  It's just a good you've found a level of acceptance with her.

[Bunneh]

That's so lucky, my fiancee doesn't completely like me wearing girls clothing infront of her but she has decided to except me and continues to warm up to it.