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I posted in the biographies section a longer intro of who I am and how I got here. But this might be a good place, too; in case I messed up. (I am kind of... not smart.)

I am Michael, I am 18 years old and unable to live as I want because I live with my parents, a sheltered catholic homeschooler with two younger sisters. If I try something masculine, my sisters refer to me as an 'It,' not worthy of 'he' or 'she' (That is insulting, right? It is hard to talk to siblings, I think). My father doesn't speak to me, because he found out by my mother I was suicidal for wanting to be a man. He doesn't believe in anything like that. My mother thinks it is a phase easily outwitted by antidepression meds. They mean well, I think... But...

I was looking for a support group for a long time, the only safe way I knew how--the internet. This looks like a wonderful and safe site. I hope that it is active and friendly as first impressions made, I want to say hello to all of you beautiful people :D

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hey Mike!!

Welcome to Laura's playground!!! It is so nice to have you here!! Your mother is in for a big surprise when the day comes she realizes that being transgendered is not a phase!!! Well, anyway, you should get to know NolbleLight, Leo, Pol Eire, and Zabrak. They are all about your age, and I think you guys will have a lot in common!

Welcome, Welcome, and post!

LOL

bernii

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Guest joe0117

Hi Michael,

Welcome to the Playground! I am so glad you found us. You are most certainly worthy of being respected. Families can be difficult to deal with. I hope you feel comfortable to post and keep us updated about how you are doing. Everyone here is so great and supportive. It is like a giant extended family. I hope that you find the support you deserve and have been looking for here. I'm sure you will.

The Ladies will be by I'm sure to offer you pizza and other wonderful refreshments. In the mean time, have some cookies I opened and took out of the package. I'll spare you my baking. :P I look forward to getting to know you!

Joe

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Hello Michael,

Do come in and sit down, I like to welcome all of our new members with some food and while the girls all seem to like the cookies and milk, most of our young men like to start out with something a little bit more - I have some fresh pizza and I was just about to fix myself a cheeseburger so if you would like one, just let me know.

We are a very close family here, we don't judge or criticize any one!

We have fun, we ask questions, we learn and we support each other.

Welcome to your new family.

Love ya,

Sally

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I smell Pizza :P

Welcome to the group Micheal, you might not be able to be yourself at home right now but soon enough you will be out in this world alone and this site has lots of usefull advice for newbies. I do hope you poke around a bit and check out some of the past posts to get an idea of how you can deal with your life, in a productive way. Survival is a key aspect to all Transgendered floks and we all do our best to stand by each other in times of crisis.

Peace and Love.

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Guest Neuro

Wow, thank you so much; everyone--I did not expect such fast response! Aheh heh being Italian American, Pizza and burgers are my forte XD

This seems like such a wonderful forum, everyone seems like family. Only without the nasty gossip XD

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Guest Deeedoo

Hi! Welcome! I kind of know how you feel; people tried to insult me by calling me 'it' all the time. Instead, I've just embraced it. I hope you're able to go out and start a life as the person you truly are.

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Guest Little Sara

Welcome Michael.

Ah the ever-so-popular it's just a phase. And you've been blessed with what seems like fundies to boot. Hope you can survive it until you can get away from there. I sympathize.

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Guest Magan

Hiyas Michael :)

Welcome to Laura's! As you can tell everyone here is very supportive and friendly.

I was just wondering if you have tired to talk to your doctor about how you feel? Talking to your doctor might be a good way to find a local support group or a therapist.

*hugs*

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hey mike!

welcome dude!

my parents are simular, i am also 18 and still live at home with my parents

endurance is how im coping

have a seat and have some pizza, in my country you would be legal to drink so lets crack open a beer

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Guest Elizabeth K

Welcome Welcome Welcome

Look at all those people who came to say hello! I think you finially found a home. Yes, we try to keep it as safe as possible and it is also G-rated (Laura says PG-13) so it should be easy for you to look around. And we want you to do that, look around and maybe post a question or two - or make a few comments.

Sorry about yur unsupportive siblings, it can be that way sometimes - but let us know if it gets tough! We are here for you!

Glad to meet you... Lizzy

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Guest Elizabeth K
hey lizzy you cheat :P

you posted the same thing twice

tryin to get your posts up!

jokes

ooops - fat fingers on the 'post reply' button - fixed it - thanks

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Michael!

My goodness...I didn't get to say hello to you when you first came in and I DO apologize for that!

But I see that you're off to a wonderful start here....the people are awesome, aren't they?

I hope that things become more bearable for you ...we all do understand what you're having to deal with!

Please enjoy yourself here and make some friends!

So happy to have you!

XXOO

Donna Jean

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Guest doodle

Hi Michael welcome I'm a little on the late side as always but you will find a nice group of guys here . Lots of nice women also, Do keep us informed on how you are. The cure usually follows the phase( just hang in there ) than reality begins to set in.... yawn.

wish you well.

doodle

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a little late, but welcome. i'm glad you like the site. it really feels like a big online family to me, and i hope you fand much support and happiness here.

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