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Hey everyone! Im not sure how to go about this introdcution... and i have a feeling its gonna be alittle silly because of how nervous i am about this :P

But im going to give it a go :) My name is Ashlee (given name Daniel) and im simply looking for a place to feel like i belong. im looking to find friendship and support, with the hopes that i will be able to give my own in return :D

Lots of love from down under!

Ashlee xxx

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Guest DanM

Welcome to the playground Ashley,

I am pretty sure the ladies will be around soon to offer some virtual snacks and drinks, but til then please cozy on up on the couch and make yourself at home. I am so glad you found your way here and if you need to just talk or vent well thats what we are all here for.

Peace and love Dan

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Guest Eth

Hi Ashlee!

I'm new here too, but already I've realized that this place is filled with lots of kind and caring people who will be more than happy to give you their welcome and support. This really is a great community. You'll definitely find yourself at home here.

Welcome to Laura's forum!

-ETH

P.S: you're in Australia, eh? My boyfriend is over there atm too XD

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Guest ~Brenda~

Dearest Ashlee,

I know that you feel nervous, but please dear, you are so very welcomed here and very safe! You have nothing to fear. We are all very gentle and kind and loving. No one will harm you in any way! Please come here my gentle one, and have some warm soothing cocoa and some cookies. Hear the crackling of the fireplace? Well I made the fire just for you. I was told that your were coming here so I started a fire for you.

Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, and more Welcomes!

You are safe, and what you say is important! Go ahead and post onto the forums my dear!

Love

bernii

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Guest April63

Hi, Ashlee, welcome!

I know introductions are kinda weird.. I think mine was a lot like yours! If you ever want to chat, you can always PM or IM me.

April :)

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Guest Neuro

Welcome to Laura's! I'm pretty new too, but have already become very happy here in such a short time. If there is anyplace on the internet to feel accepted and supported, it is here!!

We already have a welcoming campfire thanks to Bernii, plenty of delicious snacks oh yes~~ :lol: feel free to help yourself~

It's great to see people from all over the world on here! I hope you get a hang of the forums and feel free to post as much as you want; we'll be happy to try and answer any questions and offer opinions. (You can even offer your own opinions and experiences, which is what is so great about this place!) This is a great family to belong to, I do hope you enjoy your stay; Ashlee ;)

--Michael

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Guest Melanieshaman

Trust me, when i tell you, ALL of these wonderful people are here for you, and it is safe. I am new and i already feel at home. :)

sooooooooooooo welcome!

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Guest AshleeB

Oh wow thanks everyone :D Im just gonna go ahead and snuggle up bernii on the couch. i could do with a cuddle

i knew to expect a warm welcome but still, i am suprised! its only been ONE post and i already feel wanted!

thanks sooo much!

:wub: Lots of love from down under!

Ashlee xxx

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Guest Donna Jean

Ashlee....

So sorry that I got here late....

But....I do want to welcome you to the Playground!

I usually make plenty of coco and Sally bakes cookies as does Bernii!

So we get you all nice and comfy!

I'll just poke at the fire a little and we'll be nice and warm.....

It's coming into spring here (Ohio) and everything is blooming...flowers, trees are getting green as is the grass...just beautiful...

So make yourself at home, Honey.....

Just relax and enjoy yourself.........OK?

Good...............

Donna Jean

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Welcome, Ashlee,

You have met a lto of really nice people already and it just gets better.

We are all here with similar stories so there is no need to feel silly.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Selkia

Hey there Ashlee :)

Welcome to laura's playground :D

*hugs* don't be nervious your safe here :3

*eats cookies and drinks coco*....I'm seriously gonna end up looking like a cookie...<__<;

Oh ya xD I am Sel...I'm a 17 year old MtF :P so feel free to talk to me if ya like...

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Guest Javey

Hey Ashlee!

I'm new here too. The people here are super friendly and very welcoming. No need to feel silly :D

Hey everyone! Im not sure how to go about this introdcution... and i have a feeling its gonna be alittle silly because of how nervous i am about this :P

But im going to give it a go :) My name is Ashlee (given name Daniel) and im simply looking for a place to feel like i belong. im looking to find friendship and support, with the hopes that i will be able to give my own in return :D

Lots of love from down under!

Ashlee xxx

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Guest AshleeB

Maybe replying twice to my own post is alittle strange, im not sure as this is the first forum i have been a part of... BUT im seriously over joyed by how friendly you all are :D

Feeling alone for so long and now suddenly finding myself surrounded by support from people who understand and are going through the same thing is just sureal (spelling? lol)

I cant thank you all enough. in the short time i have been here i have learned so much and already feel so much more confidant about who i am!

*group hug* thanks everyone :D

Love Ashlee :wub:

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Guest brenda lee
Hey everyone! Im not sure how to go about this introdcution... and i have a feeling its gonna be alittle silly because of how nervous i am about this :P But im going to give it a go :) My name is Ashlee (given name Daniel) and im simply looking for a place to feel like i belong. im looking to find friendship and support, with the hopes that i will be able to give my own in return :DLots of love from down under!Ashlee xxx
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