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Hello, I used to post here under the name Kaze, but that account seems to have been deleted, so I decided to register under a different name that I use more often now, at least when it isn't already taken. I don't remember exactly when I joined, but I'm pretty sure it was sometime during 2009. I had been a lurker for quite a while, but might be  more active again.

I'm a 33 year old mtf. I haven't started hrt yet due to not having a consistent source of income, but I seem to pass well enough since most people who don't know me address me as a female. I'm not sure how well I really pass, but being short (I'm 4'11") and having long hair I guess helps. I'm not fully out, I am to my parents and my friends as well as online (not using my real name), but the rest of my relatives and friends of the family don't know yet.

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Hi

Welcome back :)

I don't know how long ago you were last here. You will notice there have been a few changes, including the site name, but  there should be some familiar faces.

Tracy

 

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Charlize Rhodium Member

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Welcome back Fate.  It sounds as if you've come out to the hardest ones.  I know it was easiest with friends but family was certainly more difficult.  I still have some cousins in Mississippi that haven't met me.  If we do get together i'm sure it will be a bit awkward.

 

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Charlize

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Hi Fate,

Welcome back! I guess you could call me one of the changes Tracy talked about. Glad to meet you!

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf?

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Thanks for the welcome back, everyone.

On ‎8‎/‎23‎/‎2017 at 8:51 AM, Charlize said:

Welcome back Fate.  It sounds as if you've come out to the hardest ones.  I know it was easiest with friends but family was certainly more difficult.  I still have some cousins in Mississippi that haven't met me.  If we do get together i'm sure it will be a bit awkward.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

I'm not really sure how the people I have left to tell will end up reacting. I'm not really concerned with it for myself since I'm not really close to anyone I have left to come out to, but since my parents are I'm not sure if it'd cause any issues for them. I'll likely wait until I start hrt for family friends as that'll likely be when I start dressing in specifically female clothes and I run into them from time to time. For my relatives I'm not really sure when I'll come out to them since I haven't talked to any of them except one for I think 10+ years and now I don't live anywhere near them so there's pretty much no chance I'll run into them by at random.

On ‎8‎/‎23‎/‎2017 at 3:34 AM, tracy_j said:

Hi

Welcome back :)

I don't know how long ago you were last here. You will notice there have been a few changes, including the site name, but  there should be some familiar faces.

Tracy

 

I forget when I was last here, I think it was within a year but I'm not sure. I think it was still the old forum when I was last here, but I don't think I spent much time browsing so I might just not be remembering well. I have seen some familiar names as I've been browsing, although I've never been good with names so while I recognize some I'm not sure if I'd remember people I might've had conversations with on here.

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