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STACIELEELAH

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Shopping is Tremendously More FUN , Now as a Female and Out even though , I am only in Trans MTF mode on Evening's , Weekend's & Holidays / Special Occassions - Shopping when in GUY mode is for me personally Boring - But in Girl Mode it is Exiciting , Adventurous & FUN , For Me Anyways , Hope it is for Most : 

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Totally agree, Stacie.  Before transition, if I needed something, I would usually be in and out of the store in 15 minutes or less.  But when shopping for women's clothes, I could spend hours (not to mention spending half my salary.  :P).

 

When just starting out, you will spend more because you're building a wardrobe from scratch.  Use discount stores and even places like Goodwill if you want to save money.  Clothes, as I'm sure you know by now, don't come cheap.  That goes double for shoes.

 

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:D

 

I have to agree! There is lots of interesting variation in female clothes, whereas men's were so boring most of the time. It was a lot easier to decide what was right though. A quick scan and either buy or leave.

 

Interestingly, and I am not sure whether it was male or female or neither as they are somewhat feminine, but the longest time I spent on buying any single item was over an hour on a pair of hiking boots. I went through two shop assistants in that time! This was immediatly before I started openly wearing feminine and female clothing so I am not sure, but maybe just me. I needed to get the perfect size and look. The ones I bought were lighter than many pairs of shoes and no more obvious than many types of trainers but they had to be right!

 

I find that glasses take a while as well.

 

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Oddly i have found even shopping for groceries more fun and that is after being full time for years.  The excitement of simply being me has perhaps worn off but the joy in being able to relate to the other women in the store is so much greater in an amazing way.  When i used to shop i felt alone where as now i am part of a community that seems more willing to support and help each member.  I can now smile at children and not be perceived as some kind of threat.  I find myself dancing down the isles of the grocery store with a smile on my face.  Now that's a real transition!

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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2 hours ago, Charlize said:

When i used to shop i felt alone where as now i am part of a community that seems more willing to support and help each member.

YES!  This is so true.  I am not afraid to speak to anyone in the store and I'm always met with a smile.

 

2 hours ago, Charlize said:

 I can now smile at children and not be perceived as some kind of threat.  I find myself dancing down the isles of the grocery store with a smile on my face.  Now that's a real transition!

Like Carolyn I used to go in, get what I need and get out.  Now it's an outing and I try to enjoy each trip.

 

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11 hours ago, Carolyn Marie said:

Totally agree, Stacie.  Before transition, if I needed something, I would usually be in and out of the store in 15 minutes or less.  But when shopping for women's clothes, I could spend hours (not to mention spending half my salary.  :P).

 

When just starting out, you will spend more because you're building a wardrobe from scratch.  Use discount stores and even places like Goodwill if you want to save money.  Clothes, as I'm sure you know by now, don't come cheap.  That goes double for shoes.

 

Carolyn Marie

 

I am right there with you. I can easily spend the entire day at the mall and both mine and my girlfriend's salary. I was looking at my closet and it is quite full after starting from almost nothing in December 2015 when I was almost full time except work.  But, I had a decent job and some cash reserves to pay for it.

 

When I go shopping now, I now take into account if I already have something like it. If I do, I put it back. My ex said that about shoes, I applied it to clothes too. 

 

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Well My Main Wardrobe at the Moment has Only 80 Plus Dresses , Most of them Bought since Early 2014 - I Love ROSS Dress For LESS

then their is

Skirts - 30 Plus

Blouses - 50 Plus

Feminine Style Jacket's - 10 Plus

Bolero's - 10 Plus

Sweater's - 10 Plus

Numerous other Articles of Feminine Female Girl's Clothes

I LOVE Shopping & I LOVE Shopping For Beautiful Clothes & Shoe's

Thank You All for you're Awesome & Wonderful Responses & Interaction

 

StacieLeelah

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I agree. It's totes more fun when you are a girl to shop. Still, I do most of mine online.

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Shopping is my favorite past time. I love picking pretty things out and trying them on. Love to mingle with the other ladies. Makes me feel so feminine. Hugs. Amber 

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