Confronting the fear/worry/uncertainty of living as a trans* woman?
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By VickySGV · Posted
As we said in the 1960's "Wipe out"!! -
By Carolyn Marie · Posted
https://beachgrit.com/2024/04/tolerance-on-the-ropes-as-transgender-surfer-refused-entry-into-womens-division-of-longboard-contest/ Same old same old. How will the Cis-girl surfers feel about trans men participating in their events, I wonder? Carolyn Marie -
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https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2024/04/russian-poetry-competition-bans-transgender-applicants/ Everyone in Russia knows that Putin hates LGBT people, so every segment of society gets on board with the Leader's viewpoint, or they risk his wrath. Sounds a lot like Florida, doesn't it? Carolyn Marie -
By RaineOnYourParade · Posted
happy trans birthday! I can't speak personally on the subject, but I hope hormones bring you the changes you're looking for <3 -
By MaeBe · Posted
That’s super healthy, to see that something that becomes common has less effect on you and that you are able to decipher these feelings. Sadly, this trend tends to only deaden good feelings as we tend not to let bad feelings attenuate the same way. I have noticed less euphoria, but still feel the dysphorias that I have. Sometimes the good sneaks in and reminds me, but often time it’s just me seeing myself in the mirror and being comfortable about what I see when embracing my realized self. I may not get the same buzz I once did, but I don’t feel incongruous when looking at a more “drab” reflection. Wishing you strength, you are amazing! -
By KayC · Posted
Congratulations! and Happy Trans Birthday @LittleSam! That is such a BIG milestone. I can still remember walking out of my clinic with my first HRT presciption. I was on Cloud-9. Wishing you all the best in the start of your new Journey! -
By missyjo · Posted
maebe thank you I try to be. I thank God for blessings, try to share them, beg forgiveness for my shortcomings n vow to try to do better...2 priests have said no, God doesn't condemn you just for being trans...but apparently evangelicals do I shall vtry dear thank you -
By MaeBe · Posted
Meet him at the being good to others part of Christianity. At the heart of it, there are excellent tenets of the faith. Those that condemn are judging, Jesus would have us be selfless; stone casting and all that. Are you a good person? Are you putting good into the world? If your gender is an issue for God, let God judge. In the mortal realm, let your actions be heard. -
By missyjo · Posted
and just fi sweeten it..I'm catholic n he hasn't been for years..he's evangelical..whatever that is -
By MaeBe · Posted
Let’s stick to cite-able fact. Most of my posts have been directly in relation to LGBTQ+ rights as it pertains to P2025 and I have drawn direct links between people, their quotes, and their agenda. I have made reference to the cronyism that P2025 would entail as well, by gutting, not cutting, broad swathes of government and replacing it with “conservative warriors” (I can get you the direct quote, but rest assured it’s a quote). All this does is constantly force the cogs to be refitted, not their movement. To say that agencies have directly defied a President is a bit much, the EPA did what Trump told them to do at the direct harm to the environment, the department of agriculture did the same by enacting the administrations forced move to KC which decimated the USDA. How about Betsy DeVoss for Education? Or Bannon for anything? What about the revolving Chief of Staff position that Trump couldn’t stay filled? Or the Postmaster General, who did much to make the USPS worse? Let’s not mix politics with racism, sexism, or any other ism. Because Trump made mainly white, male, appointments—many of them not, arguably, people fit for service—or unwilling to commit to term. I can argue this because, again, he’s up for election and will do what he did before (and more of the same, his words). Please delineate how the selected diversity appointments have negatively affected the US, other than being black, women, or queer? Representation matters and America benefits when its people are inspired and empowered. -
By missyjo · Posted
ok ladies if I've asked this before I'm sorry please delete ok so I have 2vsiblings..one is overly religious..n preachy n domineering..so he keeps trying to talk with me n I'd like to..but he always falls into this all knowing all wise domineering preachy thing tjaz tells me he's praying for christ to beat Satan for control of my soul..which is doomed to hell bc I'm transgender I'd like to try to have a civil conversation n try to set him strait n gsin a cooperation n real conversation any suggestions? -
By missyjo · Posted
abigail darling what about extensions or a wig? be brave n hang in there to thine own self be true good luck -
By RaineOnYourParade · Posted
When I first started figuring things out, I got a lot more euphoria. Every time a friend would use he/they pronouns for me, I'd get this bubbly feeling, and seeing myself look masculine made me really happy. Dysphoric state felt more normal, so I guess I noticed the pain it caused me less. Now, it's more just that my pronouns and such things feel natural, and dysphoria is a lot stronger -- I know what's natural, so experiencing the opposite is more jarring than everything. The problem is, most of my natural experiences are from friends, and I rarely get properly gendered by strangers, much less by my family. I've found myself unable to bind in months due to aches, colds,, and not wanting to risk damage. It partially makes me want to go back to the beginning of my journey, because at least then I got full euphoria. I'm pretty sure it'll be like this until I medically transition, or at the very least get top surgery (you know all those trans dudes online with tiny chests? Not me, unfortunately). It's a bit depressing, but at least I know that, eventually, there's a way out of this. -
By RaineOnYourParade · Posted
Major mood, right here ^^^ I've listened to Lumineers to a long time (a major portion of it by osmosis via my mom), so that is almost painfully relatable -
By RaineOnYourParade · Posted
As for getting a button-up/formal pants suit, you can try to talk to her more -- Cis women in tuxes have worn tuxes in recent years, after all, (for example, Zendaya) so it can still be a relatively safe topic. For jumpsuits, I'd recommend going with a simple one with a blazer, if you can -- this'll make it look overall more masculine. There's a lot of good brands, but going for one without a lot of extra glitz on it will make it look less feminine under a blazer. I don't know many specific brands though since I usually just get my stuff from chain stores, sorry :< When it comes to your hair, if you can't cut it, you can look up tutorials on fluffing it up instead. If you can pull it off, it can look a lot shorter and more androgynous instead!
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