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Hi I’m a married guy with children mortgage etc

ive been taking hormones now for over a month with only the gps knowledge 

inside my body I’m a woman as you already guessed 

my body is changing for the better  my breasts and nipples have grown as in my legs and waist bum has slimmed a little 

my body hair seems to have slowed down in growth and got thinner and my genital area only need to be shaved once a week now as it used to be every two days.

so basically I feel amazing today and as my wife and kids are up and out I’m going out dressed today for the first time I’ve just got ready with full make up and a pretty dress 

no wig as yet but a straw hat 

I’m feeling so confident and ready to hit the town for an hour or two 

 

 

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Have fun and be safe!

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf?

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That is the thing. The worrying at least in the beginning is mostly done by the person going out. I am proud of you. 

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Guest Ade6589
Just now, jo jo said:

i hope u wasnt topless lol

Only in the garden sun bathing I was just in a thong 

but went out round town dressed earlier 

i was nervous as hell 

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Just now, Daisy Mae said:

That is the thing. The worrying at least in the beginning is mostly done by the person going out. I am proud of you. 

Thanks babe 

it was fine 

I hope to start doing it more and more 

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Just now, Ade6589 said:

Only in the garden sun bathing I was just in a thong 

but went out round town dressed earlier 

i was nervous as hell 

life is a rollercoaster just enjoy it

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I agree with Jo Jo. Take baby steps and one day at a time. 

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Just now, jo jo said:

thanx daisy mae it makes sense also builds ur confidence

Yes thanks both 

I’m a very confident person anyway so I’m loving the little steps hair thining on body and hips  looking slender 

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Just now, Ade6589 said:

Yes thanks both 

I’m a very confident person anyway so I’m loving the little steps hair thining on body and hips  looking slender 

I am so happy for you. The beginning of the journey is such an exciting one.

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Guest Ade6589
2 hours ago, Daisy Mae said:

I am so happy for you. The beginning of the journey is such an exciting one.

Oh yes it’s baby and thanks 

I obviously have a few issues all along the way with being married and having kids but my life’s looking great and I feel sexier for sure 

 

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Definitely looking good and love the nipple bar piercings. 

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Just now, Daisy Mae said:

Definitely looking good and love the nipple bar piercings. 

Aw thank a lot babe 

I’ve had my nipples pierced years now 

gp said they should be fine to wear during hrt 

he said if they hurt too much take them out 

 

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Just now, Ade6589 said:

Aw thank a lot babe 

I’ve had my nipples pierced years now 

gp said they should be fine to wear during hrt 

he said if they hurt too much take them out 

 

They have also got a lot bigger and   Gone brown lol

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Just now, Ade6589 said:

Aw thank a lot babe 

I’ve had my nipples pierced years now 

gp said they should be fine to wear during hrt 

he said if they hurt too much take them out 

 

Yeah if they hurt definitely take them out.

I have a question, does your wife know about you gp?

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Just now, Daisy Mae said:

Yeah if they hurt definitely take them out.

I have a question, does your wife know about you gp?

No my wife knows nothing as she’s never around to be fair 

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1 minute ago, Ade6589 said:

No my wife knows nothing as she’s never around to be fair 

How do you feel about keeping such an affair away from your wife? I mean she has to be around at some point to mention it. If she finds out on her own she could ruin you and your chances of really having much of a relationship with your kids. i would seriously rethink this one.

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Just now, Daisy Mae said:

How do you feel about keeping such an affair away from your wife? I mean she has to be around at some point to mention it. If she finds out on her own she could ruin you and your chances of really having much of a relationship with your kids. i would seriously rethink this one.

Yes I know this 

and I would hate for that to happen 

I will see her Wednesday for an hour 

I may try to bring it up then depending on myself in general 

I clearly don’t want her and I know she’s definitely having sex with someone 

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Just now, Ade6589 said:

Yes I know this 

and I would hate for that to happen 

I will see her Wednesday for an hour 

I may try to bring it up then depending on myself in general 

I clearly don’t want her and I know she’s definitely having sex with someone 

I don’t care if she’s seeing anyone as I’ve been cheating on her for years with men 

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It still needs to be brought out in the open and communicated between the both of you. If you both decide that an open marriage is the way to go than that is both fine, but going behind each others back without telling each other is just plain old cheating and that can just destroy the both of you. You both have to stop thinking about yourselves and solely thinking about the safety and the well being of your kids. I am sorry that may sound harsh, but I am just speaking from my heart.

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