SEX DRIVE

[jody]

mtf ok i know that antiandrogens kill the sex drive..does estrogen ect return it?

[VickySGV]

It returns, but not in the way it used to be.  Not so much a drive as just a smooth feeling.  You do give up things on HRT.  If giving it up bothers you, just don't do it.

[jody]

no it does not bother me, ive been on antiandrogen before and back on it now i was just more curious than anything..i dont miss for one minute the male sex drive it was such a confusion...me and testosterone were never ment to be together lol

[VickySGV]

4 hours ago, jody said:

me and testosterone were never ment to be together lol

 

We call that Testosterone poisoning on the MtF boards here. 

[Guest Rachel Gia]

Rather then get into graphic analysis I would say that my sex drive has transformed or moved to a more romantic side of the topic plus a desire to be actively involved in making a partner happy in all aspects of a relationship.

I am still very much driven by attraction and the complexities of seduction.

 

[jody]

in an attempt to be subtle before loss of testosterone my drive was female based in most ways,to please a partner,be receptive ect,male sexual function was unwelcome it all really didnt fit..now loss of male drive is most welcome.. it was the wondering of if a different sex drive returned..i am not yet on oestrogen ect as its complicated but am on anti-androgen, all doctor approved and monitored.

[jo jo]

your all spot on my sex drive plummeted or so i thought now its just changed i still have desires but not erections so to speak more a full body experience now

[KeiraC]

Just now, jo jo said:

your all spot on my sex drive plummeted or so i thought now its just changed i still have desires but not erections so to speak more a full body experience now

 

I am finding over the last few months my interest has fallen off, but Also it takes work to get a errection, and I am more wet down there during the day its kinda weird I would say I am lesbian but I was in the gym and there were a lot of guys working out around me and I felt damp really weird as I had no interest in them

 

[jo jo]

Just now, KeiraC said:

 

I am finding over the last few months my interest has fallen off, but Also it takes work to get a errection, and I am more wet down there during the day its kinda weird I would say I am lesbian but I was in the gym and there were a lot of guys working out around me and I felt damp really weird as I had no interest in them

 

hun its funny but my erections have died lol and my desire lol but i suppose my sexdrive has shifted sideways i prefer emotions and being touched n cwtched i get an allover body sensation now

[jody]

my function dissapears..its a long story but im on 3 monthly injections..the last one least year i had adoubt,was sure i wanted it but had t know so missed the next..it takes 3 months after for the first sign of any recovery and the few months after confirmed my doubt was wrong i wanted the injection,which now is sorted..i do not miss the male sex drive one bit or the function but i  do still retain the female part but not as anything like the male drive.i have it in the pipeline to have estrogen ect added but at the moment i take other meds and they have some effects that estrogen would so the doc is hanging fire. it was just the in what form if any did a sex drive appear

[jo jo]

Just now, KeiraC said:

 

I am finding over the last few months my interest has fallen off, but Also it takes work to get a errection, and I am more wet down there during the day its kinda weird I would say I am lesbian but I was in the gym and there were a lot of guys working out around me and I felt damp really weird as I had no interest in them

 

its also your pheromones lol

[KeiraC]

Just now, jo jo said:

hun its funny but my erections have died lol and my desire lol but i suppose my sexdrive has shifted sideways i prefer emotions and being touched n cwtched i get an allover body sensation now

 

I am finding that it more all over body, though the weird think is I smell more female down there as well maybe its just my smell is hightened

[jo jo]

Just now, jody said:

my function dissapears..its a long story but im on 3 monthly injections..the last one least year i had adoubt,was sure i wanted it but had t know so missed the next..it takes 3 months after for the first sign of any recovery and the few months after confirmed my doubt was wrong i wanted the injection,which now is sorted..i do not miss the male sex drive one bit or the function but i  do still retain the female part but not as anything like the male drive.i have it in the pipeline to have estrogen ect added but at the moment i take other meds and they have some effects that estrogen would so the doc is hanging fire. it was just the in what form if any did a sex drive appear

 

Just now, jody said:

my function dissapears..its a long story but im on 3 monthly injections..the last one least year i had adoubt,was sure i wanted it but had t know so missed the next..it takes 3 months after for the first sign of any recovery and the few months after confirmed my doubt was wrong i wanted the injection,which now is sorted..i do not miss the male sex drive one bit or the function but i  do still retain the female part but not as anything like the male drive.i have it in the pipeline to have estrogen ect added but at the moment i take other meds and they have some effects that estrogen would so the doc is hanging fire. it was just the in what form if any did a sex drive appear

mine diminished slowly but i prefer me now than old me im more emotional i prefer cwtches n cuddles than sex its more of a full body experience

[jo jo]

Just now, KeiraC said:

 

I am finding that it more all over body, though the weird think is I smell more female down there as well maybe its just my smell is hightened

a bit of both hun i feel more at ease with myself aswell but at the mo im still presenting as male at work and finding it a little awkward now peeing in a trough in male toilets lol

[jody]

when i had sex before erections ect i didnt want and to be hounest didnt need.i enjoyed sex as receptive and got all the satisfaction i needed. im one i dont want erections i dont want male function i dont want male bits.as it is i want them as small as possible. it was a case of i wonder how it feels when oestrogen ect kicks in.im really hoping it make it even more better

[jo jo]

Just now, jody said:

when i had sex before erections ect i didnt want and to be hounest didnt need.i enjoyed sex as receptive and got all the satisfaction i needed. im one i dont want erections i dont want male function i dont want male bits.as it is i want them as small as possible. it was a case of i wonder how it feels when oestrogen ect kicks in.im really hoping it make it even more better

hun when estrogen kicks in ul know lol not just ur sexdrive but emotions change aswell trust me i cry a lot more now lol

[jody]

i identify as andro,mainly as due to my build and features its how i am,if i tried to make myself to fem i would look wrong..im happy with it..as far as down below then 100% it has to be female..breasts,well there there and i like them..when i started i tried to aim for the wrong thing but now i work on it as i go along with whats possible. my doc agrees i have 100% body issues but they are being attended to...he said ive been so much happier ive less male side and more female.so i asked him how does the sex drive alter and he didnt know..

[jody]

i know as far as orgasms go now they are dry but so much nicer and unlike when i had the male function it doesnt mean the end of arousal or sex which i love...i think what im curious about is whether things improve in the right direction..

 

[jo jo]

Just now, jody said:

i know as far as orgasms go now they are dry but so much nicer and unlike when i had the male function it doesnt mean the end of arousal or sex which i love...i think what im curious about is whether things improve in the right direction..

 

oh yes and longer lasting the whole body takes a hit lol

[jody]

yes..totally different.  it may be hard to explain but ive always been female in bed but not in a gay or camp way. ive always had a semi rounded body. i think what i fear is if the sex drive goes up it will be sort of male based and i dont want that.i know everyone is different and different things matter,i dont have to prove to anyone my gender or how i present but if push comes to shove there will be no male bit and deffinate  female bits. what i didnt want is that but the wrong sex drive....im sure it wont happen that way..i must say i find my breasts more an arousal centre.

[jo jo]

Just now, jody said:

yes..totally different.  it may be hard to explain but ive always been female in bed but not in a gay or camp way. ive always had a semi rounded body. i think what i fear is if the sex drive goes up it will be sort of male based and i dont want that.i know everyone is different and different things matter,i dont have to prove to anyone my gender or how i present but if push comes to shove there will be no male bit and deffinate  female bits. what i didnt want is that but the wrong sex drive....im sure it wont happen that way..i must say i find my breasts more an arousal centre.

i find myself more lesbian i think i always have and yes the nipples lets not go there lol

[jody]

oh i like a man lol..i know how to please one..last one said god ur better than the wife lol..

[jo jo]

Just now, jody said:

oh i like a man lol..i know how to please one..last one said god ur better than the wife lol..

im not saying anything ?? lol

[jody]

they are like little puppies..want lots of attention and the odd treat lol

[jo jo]

Just now, jo jo said:

im not saying anything ?? lol

i bet some of these american ladies reading this think we a right bunch of oddballs ?