unhappy

[jo jo]

a bit of a bad day yesterday was in male guise as still early stages for me ..... but ex walked past and completely ignored me as if i didnt exist a bit upsetting. we may not be together anymore but no need to completely ignore someone like they are a leper☹️

[Charlize]

I'm sorry you are going through this time of turmoil Jo Jo.  The gender issues we face are hard enough.  Your ex is only making that worse.  It may well be that if she is that kind of person you may be better off without her.  

I've found, after what's becoming a long life, that my circumstances and moods are always in a kind of flux.  One day everything seems fine and then the hammer drops.  A week or month later things are fine again.  Please don't forget that it does change.

I'm glad your here.  This site helped me get through some rough times.  Hopefully you'll find that as well.

Your not alone

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

[jae bear]

 I agree with Charlize... Time is very clearly making a big difference in the relationship I’m having with my soon to be ex-wife. My latest revelation is that saying I love her is something I’m going to have to find a way to stop doing, although honestly I don’t want to. I suppose if I become insistant it will just be a strain that we both don’t need, but it’s odd not to hear it come back to me after all these years. Now that we are legally separated she has cooled off quite a bit, she’s focused and organized about the separation of our future, and while the lack of anger  and disappointment is nice, the indifference to me seems hard to manage. I’m realizing today is Father’s Day, and I’m sure we plan to go out to my favorite  breakfast place with my aunt, my daughter and my wife, but I do wonder just what the mood will be? I’m very sorry that your ex has ignored you, that’s not right, she shouldn’t be acting that way, it’s simply bad manners...

Hugs,

Jackie

[Jani]

I'm sorry to hear of this stress JoJo.  Solder onward and keep faith that it was pass and you are happier now.  

 

Hugs, Jani

[jo jo]

thanx everyone it means a lot to me this forum and wonderful people have brought a lot of colour into my life and if it wasnt for you wonderful ladies i dont think i would manage lots of hugs jo jo

[Jani]

JoJo we're always here to talk to.  The support here is always flowing to and from.  You've been very helpful as well.  

 

Jani

[BrandiBri]

I too am sorry to hear of your ex's indifference. I don't post as much as I have in the past, but I do try to keep up with things here and I do read your comments and find them to be helpful in my own journey. I will try to be as supportive as well.