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Hello all you marvellous people! Recently hatched egg here! (I just learned that term yesterday) 

 

About me: Happily married to a wonderful woman and mother of my 5 children. She has been my everything for 7 years. It was hard to tell her I'm a woman. It was hard to watch her attempt to grasp it all too quickly. Our kids took less to acclimate. 

 

I'm here mainly to lend a voice to the ranks, offer support and raise the self esteem of all the beautiful people on this forum, myself included! 

 

Lexi, 

   xoxo

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Hi there Lexi.

I am sorry that you have had a bad time explaining to your wife and children. This is one of the main reasons that I have never been married nor had children. I hope that you find what you are looking for. As for self esteem I have more than enough for both me and my boyfriend. I am more than pleased to assist you in any way I can so please do not hesitate to ask me.

Kali-Ann ? ? xx

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 Aww Kali you are the sweetest thank you! 

 

Regrettably the difficulty wasn't on me as I've known for a very long time. The family has adapted better than anyone could ever hope(so far) My kids are much more affectionate and conversational with me than ever before! My wife enjoys the softness very much aswell though she still isn't certain if she can adjust to new equipment. 

 

The darker days are behind me! It's a long road ahead but I've got great support! 

 

I don't have an real life friends going through this though so here I am ^^

 

Thx again for the warm welcome! Keep sparkling! Xoxo

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Hello Lexi.  Welcome to the forum!   I'm sorry to hear your wife had/has a difficult time.  Kids are certainly different, being more open to new ideas.  Please join in the conversation! 

Jani

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, Lexi.  We're glad to have you here, and I look forward to hearing more from you.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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Hiya Carolyn, 

Thank you for the hugs and warm welcome! I hope we all get to enjoy this level of acceptance in our daily lives. ?

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Hi Lexi! Welcome to the forum. Looking forward to get to know you better. Love your name, btw.

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Welcome Lexi.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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Hiya Brandi, 

 I'm really excited to be here! Thank you for the compliment! My birth name was Alex and since my wife and father both have that tattooed I had to keep it close. My wife wants to make her look as if someone grafitti tagged it into Lexi. I hope to be half the woman she is someday! 

 

We have something else in comment too! My set is N gauge cause I don't have enough room for HO gauge =(

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Hiya Charlize, 

 

 Ty for welcome n hugs. Positive energy always appreciated and returned. 

 

Love your smile! Radiant! 

 

  Xoxo

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2 hours ago, Lexi said:

Hiya Rowan, nice to meet you! 

Ps - I love your hair. Gorgeous ^^

Aww, thank you! I'm just starting to get the hang of my hair (I think). So much to learn. Especially since I have super curly and difficult hair.

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Hi Lexi,

 

Welcome. It's nice to meet you :) 

 

Tracy

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9 hours ago, Rowan said:

Aww, thank you! I'm just starting to get the hang of my hair (I think). So much to learn. Especially since I have super curly and difficult hair.

Nah it looks alive and wild, own it girl!! ❤️

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Hi Lexi,

Welcome to TransPulse. I'm glad you came!

 

Wishes for a smoothening transition with your family.

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf?

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Hiya Timber Wolf, 

  Thank you for the pleasant wishes. I'm certain no matter how it plays out the end result will be the same... A happier and more complete version of self! Just hope one day it's this smooth for everyone! ?

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hi lexi and welcome sometimes it is a bit of a shock for a loved one and the younger generation are a lot understanding im sure wife will come to terms but if not im here to listen and hope everything turns out wonderful for you

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Hiya Jo jo, 

  

  I'm sure my wife will adapt but even if not she'll still be a big part of my support group. Either way thank you for being there for me if/when needed. It's always nice to make a new friend! 

 

Side note - your smile is infectious! Thank you for extending it to me! Xoxo

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3 hours ago, Lexi said:

Nah it looks alive and wild, own it girl!! ❤️

Thank you!!!? ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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