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I'm finally wearing male clothing!!


Cass Kasinski

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Hi peeps! Haven't written in a while :o just wanted to give you a quick update ;)

SO basically I decided not to cut my hair as short as I stated in my last post because it would be a HUGE change and I decided to go a bit more "gradual", so now I have jaw-length hair and a fringe. :DIt's not bad, idk if I wanna keep it, tho.

However, today was a big day because... my mother boght me something from the "men" section!! She said she'd come with me and help me pick XD I'm so glad she's helping me with this!! :O She gave me a black T-shirt with the continents printed on it in white :D It's so weird and it feels quite odd, but I really, really like it 'cause it's really loose and my chest doesn't stick out that much. It's LOVELY.

Anyways, thank you all so much for the support! I feel this is the start of a new journey, as cliché as it may sound. What should I do next?

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Very good Cass!   I'm glad to hear you've come to a decision about your hair.  The best part is since it grows you can always change it!    

So your mother is cool!  That sounds like a neat shirt.  

 

What to do next?  Well, continue being who you are!  It seems like it's working and you're getting support. 

 

Cheers, 
Jani

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Wow, this is great news! I'm happy for you about your progress. Your "gradual" approach makes sense to me - I've been taking my time myself and it feels right. It's good to go at a relaxed pace and enjoy every step on the journey.

 

As for what to do next, I totally agree with Jani - be yourself and do what's best for you. (And this could even be to do nothing further at the moment, there's nothing wrong with that.)

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