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hello everyone my name is craven I am a ftm. I am extremely shy and takes a while to actually talk or even open up. The only ones who really support me is my husband,his sister and his brother in law. Which makes my depression even higher. I am an gamer,cosplayer and what not. There is more but I don’t want to ramble on. 

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Hi Craven, You're not rambling!  Stream of conscious writing is common here so have at it.  No one here is judgmental.   I'm not into gaming and cosplay but we have a number of members that are so you're in good company.  

 

Having the support of your spouse and in-laws is cool.  You can branch out when the time is right.  

 

Please join in the conversation and ask any questions you may have. 

 

Cheers, Jani

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Hello Craven. Welcome.  We enjoy reading about the lives of others like us so never feel like your bothering us by sharing yourself.  We are all here for the same reasons...and three of the major ones are support, friendship and information.  It's good to know a little about you so we can give you support that best fits your situation. Please feel free to share as much as you feel comfortable sharing.

 

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, Craven.  No pressure to talk about yourself any more than you are comfortable with.  You can participate in the forums as much or as little as you like, but as I always tell folks, the more you participate, the more you will learn.  Glad to have you here with us.

 

HUGS

 

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Hi...I'm new myself, and seem to have my own set of problems, and family suggesting what to do.  I've been told by friends to just be myself, accept myself, and recognize the laughter and joy I often bring to others.  I offer lots of advice, but never act on it myself.  I'm shy and self-critical, so I need to find confidence...we would all do better with that, and I've found that returning to who I know I am (I took ten years off transitioning...didn't make any difference except spoiling my life...I was caretaker to my mom, and dealt with family a lot, but I should never have given up being who I am).

Take strength in knowing you're doing this for yourself, and things will eventually work...be yourself.

 

I am what I am...many have said that, other than Popeye...lol.  

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15 hours ago, CravenPrudiise said:

I am an gamer,cosplayer and what not. There is more but I don’t want to ramble on. 

Hi. Welcome to the fun. This place is great. So many good people and advice. I used to game but not really anymore. Cosplay! Omg I love Cosplay. Anyway, welcome! 

Ashlee ❤️

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Hi Craven,

Welcome to TransPulse. I'm glad you've come along!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf?

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Welcome Craven. I too enjoy gaming, but it seems like a hardly ever get the chance lately. Cosplay has always fascinated me and I have thought of trying it at a local con, but I never find the time to get started. 

 

You have ave come to a great place for support and sharing at your pace as lots of others have already mentioned. 

 

*hugs*

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Welcome Craven! I am not into cosplay but I did find a cosplay pattern (Manikin) while looking at McCall's patterns online. I just may make it because it's so cute! Lot's of work though. I would wear it for Halloween.

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