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"Institutionalized Bigotry" Alleged re. UK Council Survey Form


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Sadly, that image is probably a true representation of what most people imagine a transgender person to look like. 

 

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Just now, jo_g said:

I moved away from Essex aged 18. That is all. ? 

guess its not the only way then! ;) ? I genuinely think someone somewhere probably thought they were being helpful and inclusive...

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16 hours ago, DeeDee said:

guess its not the only way then! 

 

Hehe, true. Thank goodness!

 

16 hours ago, DeeDee said:

I genuinely think someone somewhere probably thought they were being helpful and inclusive...

 

I think you're right that there wasn't any malice behind it; just a lack of education. I am a little concerned that instead of pointing out the problem and offering to help them better understand, it gets blown up into a scandal, which could have negative effects for our community...

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Just now, jo_g said:

it gets blown up into a scandal, which could have negative effects for our community...

You are so right, any chance to be controversial or create scandal is just jumped on. It's one of the biggest reasons I try not to watch/read the news - it either depresses me or makes me angry. I would love for there to be positive news where all the good things that are happening in the world are reported on and the negative story is the small bit at the end!

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Scandal always makes ratings because people can’t focus on anything other than negative things. It gets their attention and spurs all kinds of controversy. Which feeds Facebook and Twitter and YouTube... you get the idea. Bottom line is there are a lot of unsatisfied people in the modern world that have to feed negative things to feel better about themselves. Solutions are not the focus because it’s impulse to control or smash anything that is out of their control. What many don’t realize is that some things are not important to control or create a mess of and it’s often better to just let it be. Sometimes the right thing is to not do anything. Sometimes the right thing is to be a positive problem solver. Knowing the difference is what many people have no skill at.

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1 hour ago, DeeDee said:

 I would love for there to be positive news where all the good things that are happening in the world are reported on and the negative story is the small bit at the end!

 

Agreed with above, There definitely is a positive news deficit. I tune it out, focus on inner happiness, the rest of the world can go to ****

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