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Hi everyone, I am a 23 year old from England. I am a musician and I love listening to punk rock and watching horror movies.

 

I was assigned male at birth and have lived as a male my whole life, but deep down I've always felt female. I have always wanted to be seen as a female by others, and every time I am called "he" or "him" it just doesn't sound right. I hate my body and wish it was feminine instead of masculine.

 

This is the first time in my life I have admitted this. I suffer with depression and anxiety but when I dress up in feminine clothing (in private) I feel happy and confident. I feel as though I am whole. Coming out as transgender (which I have come to the conclusion I probably am) just isn't an option though at the moment because it would be very upsetting for my family and ruin all my friendships. I have joined this forum to hear the experiences of similar people and and I hope one day I will be ready to live as a female.

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Welcome Sophie, to the forums, you will find like minds and souls here. Have a look around, and post away as the mood strikes...

 

I think you'll find quite a few music enthusiasts here as well.

 

Hugs

 

Cyndee -

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Welcome! This forum is awesome, alot of helpful, supportive folks here. I just started using it recently to seek help sorting out my gender dysphoria. People here are pretty warm and welcoming. 

 

Love your username! I have a passion for punk rock here in the states. All my friends are anarcho crusties! ❤️

 

~Toni

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, Sophie.  I know that you'll find a lot in these forums that can help you and answer whatever questions you have.  Please let us know how we can help, and enjoy the time you spend with us.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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Hi Sophie,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ??

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Welcome Sophie.  When i joined this site i was much like you.  I loved presenting as female.  I had started to move in society as myself but only where no-one knew me.  I also feared the reaction of family and friends.  The time i spent here and some time with a gender therapist helped me discover my path. 

Simply knowing i wasn't alone helped a great deal.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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Hey Sophie welcome!   Not much more to add that my friends haven't said.  This is a great forum.  Please join in!  

What instrument do you play?

Jani

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Thank you everyone for such a warm welcome! I really didn't expect such a friendly welcome. And it feels so nice to finally be referred to as my 'real' name instead of my male one ☺️

 

In response to Jani's question, I play guitar and bass.

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8 hours ago, sophie_the_punk said:

so nice to finally be referred to as my 'real' name

Well that is who you are!

 

Jani

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Hi Im Anita and Im new! Im not fully out but slowly making my journey into womanhood!! Hugs

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