Hi, I'm Cassie

[Cassie]

I recently figured out my true identity, and feel very alone. I've started therapy, and she's wonderful, but I can only see her once a week for an hour. I just want to communicate with others like me, if there are any, or at least a sympathetic ear. I'm a girl in the wrong body, stuck living in a place where I can't be my true self. As an additional cosmic joke I like girls, as a lesbian, not a hetero male. I'm aware that makes no sense. 

 

I'm really just looking to make friends to have someone to talk to.

[VickySGV]

Hi Cassie, from what you have written you are going to fit into this place very well, so get looking, reading, and throwing your own voice into things.  The fact you have a counselor is one of the best things we hear, especially since you say you have only recently identified your True Self.   Sexuality is the least of your concerns since being Trans is not primarily about having sex.  Other things are more important, but yes, you sound like one of us. 

[Timber Wolf]

Hi Cassie,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

I think we all felt very alone when we first accepted that we are trans. I know I did. But you're not alone anymore. We've got each other now!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ??

[michelle_kitten]

Hi Cassie,

 

I am in the same boat, in some ways.  I am attracted to girls.  I've spent my whole life being fed guys should like girls, and I've never really considered being attracted to men.  What you are going through may not make a lot of sense, but if you are like me you have some growing to do.  What doesn't make sense now, may make perfect sense later.  It's kinda like how people used to think evil spirits caused disease, but now we know it is tiny little germs.  Give yourself time, and discover yourself a little more each day.

[Cassie]

20 hours ago, VickySGV said:

Hi Cassie, from what you have written you are going to fit into this place very well, so get looking, reading, and throwing your own voice into things.  The fact you have a counselor is one of the best things we here, especially since you say you have only recently identified your True Self.   Sexuality is the least of your concerns since being Trans is not primarily about having sex.  Other things are more important, but yes, you sound like one of us. 

Thank you for saying that. It feels good to know there's a place where I can be accepted.

[Cassie]

19 hours ago, Timber Wolf said:

Hi Cassie,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

I think we all felt very alone when we first accepted that we are trans. I know I did. But you're not alone anymore. We've got each other now!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ??

Thank you! One reason I feel alone is that I'm a city girl, but I've been moved to a very small, conservative town and I'm totally out of my element. I think your website will be very helpful. 

[Cassie]

13 hours ago, michelle_kitten said:

Hi Cassie,

 

I am in the same boat, in some ways.  I am attracted to girls.  I've spent my whole life being fed guys should like girls, and I've never really considered being attracted to men.  What you are going through may not make a lot of sense, but if you are like me you have some growing to do.  What doesn't make sense now, may make perfect sense later.  It's kinda like how people used to think evil spirits caused disease, but now we know it is tiny little germs.  Give yourself time, and discover yourself a little more each day.

I will, thanks.

[Janeshannon]

Cassie,

Welcome to Transpulse.  I think you will find this is a great place to explore yourself.  I noticed you added your voice to several postings--keep it up.  It is wonderful to have you here.

Jane Shannon

 

[Charlize]

Hi Cassie.  I found that reading about others and posting about my own journey was a great help in self acceptance.  We are all on different paths but the ability to be honest without being judged is wonderfully helpful.

Glad you've joined us.  Enjoy this journey!

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

[Jani]

Greetings Cassie and welcome.  Seeing a therapist is very helpful and I hope you enjoy it.   This is a wonderful place for communicating with like minded folks.  I hope you continue to join in!  Enjoy.

Jani