I really want a cis penis

[AaronS]

Dunno if this is NSFW to talk about here, but I'll try.
I experience bottom dysphoria a lot, especially when it comes to being sexually intimate with a partner. I wish I could change it somehow, but I don't like what I see when it comes to outcomes from different kinds of bottom surgery. I wish there was some way to like transplant a cis man's (or trans woman's) donated penis unto me. I hope I'm not alone in that? Does anyone else feel like this? Does it maybe come from a bad subconsciously transphobic place in my brain? (thinking that cis penis is better than a trans one?) I feel this is the one thing about my body I never will or can accept, and it's driving me nuts.

Thoughts??

[Carolyn Marie]

Aaron, penile transplants are a real thing, but is pretty much still in the experimental stage.  John's Hopkins Medical Center has a program.  It would be very, very expensive, though.  I can't link to it here because the website contains some diagrams that might not pass muster for this site.  But if you Google penile implants I'm sure you can find it.

 

A more common procedure would be a metoidioplasty, where a penis is constructed out of material from your own body.  That procedure can cost upwards of $50-60 K.  Medical procedures change and are improved all the time.  I'm sure the cost will come down in the coming years.

 

Carolyn Marie

[lauraincolumbia]

Penile transplants are thing?  Wow!  Do you get to select the donor?

 

[lauraincolumbia]

Just now, lauraincolumbia said:

Penile transplants are thing?  Wow!  Do you get to select the donor?

 

Sorry, I made a joke out of a serious subject...

 

[MaryEllen]

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Penile transplants are thing?  Wow!  Do you get to select the donor?

 

It would depend on how willing the donor is.

[JJ]

Right now the transplants can only be done on a cis male because of the nerves and prostate and testes. In essence you would have to transplant 3 organs to have a functioning penis.  and have nerves to attach to. We are just not there yet.

BUT a highly realistic silicone prosthetic can go a long way toward helping with dysphoria. The baby doll pink cheap ones not so much. And you really need one for packing/STP and one for play. The average guy is only 4 to 4.5 inches flaccid and we are generally shorter than average . Anything over about 4.5 inches tends to draw negative attention - even derision.

Look up t-mensjunkshop. They have great products and customer service. I've worn a Che for 4 years daily and it's still in great shape. I'd go with the newer Leo if I was ordering now. If you do like the Che request the old style funnel

Funny thing is that when you have a highly realistic prosthesis it starts to feel like a part of you. Kind of fools your mind. Really surprised me but I did some research on it and found it happens to a whole lot of guys.

Johnny