I Finally Told My Best Friend!!!

[Ellora]

SQUEEEEEE!!! I finally told my best friend about my Orchiectomy And why I’m getting one! I told her I has transitioning and had already started taking HRT Lady Meds!! She is very happy for me, and totally interested in everything! 

Im Floating on Air at the moment, seriously smiling inside and out! I knew she would be open, but the hardest part for me was to tell someone I’ve known for such a long time. But once I was able to finally spit it out, it became soooo much easier to talk about everything, well, Well, not everything, but that will come in time.

Now that I can talk to her, I feel sooo much better now. Yay!!!

[reyindium]

That is great news Ellora! I am so happy for you. Nothing better than receiving love and support from someone you care about and whose opinion you value.

How long have you two been friends?

[Ellora]

Just now, reyindium said:

That is great news Ellora! I am so happy for you. Nothing better than receiving love and support from someone you care about and whose opinion you value.

How long have you two been friends?

Thank you!! You are so right!! It was scary at first, but it quickly turned to happiness!! We have been friends for 21 years now! Wow how times flies! We had mutual friends, so we met that way. We dated for about 6-7 yrs, but we broke up,  then after a cooling off period, we have been best friends since. She has always been non judgmental, so she never asked about anything personal like that, and I never talked about it with anybody. So, it never came up. Now she told me I should expect 50 questions a day, cause she has so many questions now. All in a good way, totally in a good way. She gave me a huge long hug that meant the world to me. Wow, this really turned out to Ben a great day! ?!!!

[Krisvm]

Hooray. That is so great and am glad for you. 

[Ellora]

33 minutes ago, Krisvm said:

Hooray. That is so great and am glad for you. 

Thank you soo much! ?

[tracy_j]

Great news Ellora. It's good to be able to relax a little.

 

Tracy

[Ellora]

Just now, tracy_j said:

Great news Ellora. It's good to be able to relax a little.

 

Tracy

Thank you!! I feel so relieved! She was the only one I really cared to tell at the moment. Others in time, but no rush. Weeeee! ?

[DeeDee]

Fantastic Ellora! Having someone you can talk to and who can talk to you makes such a big difference! 

[Ellora]

1 hour ago, DeeDee said:

Fantastic Ellora! Having someone you can talk to and who can talk to you makes such a big difference! 

Thank you!! That is so true! I feel better, even though we barely got to talk about it. The 4 year old twins were going a bit crazy ? ? last night, so we weren’t able to have a lengthy convo, ?. She did playfully tell me that she wasn’t done with me yet, and she had a ton of questions. Enthusiastic questions, and I told her I can’t wait, cause I’ve been wanting to tell her forever! ?! 

[Kirsten]

That’s really awesome! I know without my gfs this process would get to be too much at times. It’s so important to have those close accepting friendships. It can be hard to change them over though. Great news! 

[Ellora]

1 hour ago, Kirsten said:

That’s really awesome! I know without my gfs this process would get to be too much at times. It’s so important to have those close accepting friendships. It can be hard to change them over though. Great news! 

Thank you! It really is, I feel so much better! A Huge relief! 

Thanks again! ?