Hello

[fyrekit]

Pretty new around here obviously ? but I'm Fyrekit (not real name but y'all don't need to know that info.) I go by Fyre, Kit, etc but I am 29 and gender fluid. Today's a day where I fit my body's female gender pretty well. But I'm also in a poly relationship with a grump of a cis male and a trans man going through HRT. They.........have not been informed that I am gender fluid and probably won't be anytime in the near future. They have enough to deal with with  Jerome finally properly becoming Jerome and taking the steps to get the body he has wanted and needed for so long. But I've been the main support for Jerome as our other partner is  struggling with the whole idea of Jerome becoming his authentic self. I probably won't be saying much around here (and  honestly did not expect even this to get so long) but I could always use tips to help Jerome in his journey and maybe just a little validation that I myself am not some horrid aberration for being female/male or honestly neither on any given day.

[Carolyn Marie]

Hello, Fyre and welcome to Trans Pulse.  Let me start by saying that you are fine being whatever you feel like on any day you feel like it.  We aren't going to judge you here, and you are welcome to ask any questions you want to ask.  Things were confusing enough when I started this journey 10 years ago, and they certainly haven't gotten any less confusing.  So I don't blame you for holding off telling others in your circle.

 

Thanks for your intro, and I hope to hear from you from time to time.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

[Jani]

Welcome Fyrekit.  Thanks for sharing.  I hope to see you around the forum.

 

Cheers, Jani

[Timber Wolf]

Hi Fyrekit,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ?

[Charlize]

Welcome Fyre.  Glad you found us.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize