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Hi,

 

We'll call me NB Adult here. Haven't been on one of these sites in a long time, but my curiosity got the best of me. Began MtF transition many years ago, even went so far as to have an orchiectomy but suddenly lost interest for several years, but as we know,  it never really goes away. So I am what most would see as a non-binary person. I have a well developed female appearing chest which I usually dress around because I'm not particularly thrilled with it. I do always dress mixed gender just because it's more me. Nice to reconnect to the community!

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Hello NB Adult.  Welcome to the forum.  I hope you can find what you're looking for.  Since you're not thrilled with your body have you considered (re)connecting with a counselor to work through any lingering issues from when you stopped.  It might be a good idea, if even for a short while.  

 

In the meantime, please join in the conversation.  See you around!

 

Jani

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, NB.  Please look around, post in topics that interest, start your own topics, and let us know how we can be of assistance. 

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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How NB Adult,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ?

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Thanks everybody, your comments are noted and well received. I don't have a problem with my body, it is what it is, but since I prefer to remain he and him and yet appear so much different than the average male, it does pose problems for the onlooker at times. I know that but don't make any special efforts at concealing who and what I am, nor do I flaunt it as a matter of trying to maintain civility in a world that is becoming increasingly less civil towards those perceived to be different. Wish you all well with your own journey!

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