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Damien Mcknight

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So, I’ve gone by ‘Alex’ for almost a year, but for some reason it doesn’t seem to fit anymore. I need some help! My family has basically gotten used to Alex and I don’t know what to do or what would be a good name for me! I still like the name Alex but I just don’t know!!!

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I think ALex is a nice name its unisex too. I changed my name to Tashia-Mai then realised i spelled it in a way people say my name wrong. my name should be pronounced Tay-She-Ah-May. But people call me Tash-E-Ah-May lol oh i would pick a name you like cause once you change by deed poll thats it you stuck with it unless you want to pay again

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Pay? Who does that now.

 

You just need a stat dec. You can make it yourself. A couple of signatures and your good to go.

 

Link here to a free one

 

I Never paid a penny to change mine. That document. was accepted by the DVLA the bank, The NHS, Plus all the others.

 

 

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Forgot to say. if you want to do the free free version.  Which worked for me.

 

The above one was not the link i first said. My bad

 

Then use this one.  The one above is if you still want to pay a solicitor

 

You just get freinds to sign it.

 

Its a google doc

 

Link here

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10 hours ago, Alex Mcknight said:

So, I’ve gone by ‘Alex’ for almost a year, but for some reason it doesn’t seem to fit anymore. I need some help! My family has basically gotten used to Alex and I don’t know what to do or what would be a good name for me! I still like the name Alex but I just don’t know!!!

 

Alex is an excellent name, yes unisex but also quite manly and at some time down the road you may want to just be called Al, which is as masculine as it gets. 

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7 hours ago, Maid In Bedlam said:

Pay? Who does that now.

 

You just need a stat dec. You can make it yourself. A couple of signatures and your good to go.

 

Link here to a free one

 

I Never paid a penny to change mine. That document. was accepted by the DVLA the bank, The NHS, Plus all the others.

 

 

 

On this side of the pond most states require a court judge to sign off on an official name change to make it legal, not a big deal nor is it expensive.

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If you don't want to go by Alex, may I suggest looking a baby name lists or even names that go by A in general. you can just google that :) 

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21 hours ago, Tashia-Mai said:

in the UK you need to do by deed poll

 

 

Maybe im a little out of date. Please advise me the new legislation or where it says you need to pay for a deed poll and a stat dec is no longer legal proof. For me to aquiant myself. ?

 

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Generally, most organisations will be happy to accept just your deed poll or statutory declaration as evidence of name change, but the Passport office in particular will also require that you produce medical evidence in the form of a letter from your GIC or GP before they will issue you with a new passport. This letter must state that you are living permanently in your new gender role (it is important that this wording is included in any letter otherwise your application will be rejected).  You will also need to provide evidence that you’re using your new name (for example a payslip, or a letter from your local council).  The Passport Office also has a separate booklet about what documentation is required in various circumstances which you can

 

 

From UK Gov.org

 

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You can change your name on your passport with one of the following documents:

 

 

Look up the the Statutory Declarations Act 1835,

 

 

I used a stat Dec. I have never had an issue. But that was 5 years ago. However i have not heard of any change in the lawsample-deed-poll.thumb.png.c51899b05d79ccd67ed3bab7d3635c38.png

This is an example but there are plenty online to download and fill in

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