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Happy Thanksgiving - Just living as myself


Ashlee

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Hi all. It's been awhile since I've been on here. I'm just poking a small update. Happy Thanksgiving to everybody. I don't really post a lot on here or anywhere for that matter I just kind of been living my life. It's strange how once you start leaving trans doesn't really rule your life. You just live as yourself. I got a new job the new city and a new house. Everybody only knows me as me as Ashlee awesome! Anyway here is a picture of me now. It's been 15 months HRT. +/-

 

Much love

Ashlee❤️

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Simply gorgeous.  It’s so nice to hear and see a positive story on a transition.   
thank you for posting and giving me motivation.  

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2 hours ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

Simply gorgeous.  It’s so nice to hear and see a positive story on a transition.   
thank you for posting and giving me motivation.  

Just keep your head up proud and keep on moving forward! For real. Its so great to just be living. 

 

3 hours ago, Josie Beth said:

Happy happy!!! And merry merry!!! Glad to see you smiling so big! Very pretty

10 hours ago, NB Adult said:

 

 

 

3 hours ago, Josie Beth said:

Happy happy!!! And merry merry!!! Glad to see you smiling so big! Very pretty! Hugs!

Hi, hugs back atchya. Its been a minute. Im happier than ever before. 

 

11 hours ago, NB Adult said:

Just a total doll Ashlee, enjoy your new life I'm sure you paid your dues and earned it.

Awwww, thank you! Its been a struggle but sooo worth it 

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Thanks for sharing your journey and your lovely smile!  It helps others to know we can live beyond transition simply as ourselves.

Hope you had a great turkey day.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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On 11/30/2019 at 6:29 AM, TammyAnne said:

Congratulations Ashlee!

Gosh, you're a cutie!

Glad you've made it to a good place.

TA

Awww, thank you! Yes! Im seeing myself more and more come out. Happiness is finally here. 

 

On 11/30/2019 at 7:51 AM, Charlize said:

Thanks for sharing your journey and your lovely smile!  It helps others to know we can live beyond transition simply as ourselves.

Hope you had a great turkey day.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

Omg yes. Always so afraid I would never be happy. I would never be able to be authentically myself or pass but now I really don't think about it. I don't pass 100% of the time but I don't care either I just I'm just me. I don't know I can't explain it. I'm just happy to just be living as me.

 

On 11/30/2019 at 1:04 PM, tracy_j said:

A lovely photo ashlee! Many more of them ?

 

 

Awwww, thank you. I'm still a work-in-progress but I'm coming along for sure. Definitely more comfortable in front of the camera LOL

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Great to see a Happy Ashlee with a beautiful photo and smile. You give the rest of us hopes for the future. Good luck with you new endeavors. Thanks for sharing.

 

Big Canadian Hug

 

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