Greetings - still on my journey

[Allison Meadows]

Greetings,

 

I look forward to making friends and receiving encouragement as I continue a journey that began when I was very little (as long as I can) and knew that my body wasn't really the one I should have. Since then, I have made decades of efforts to ignore, to cope, to live life the way others believe I should because of my misassigned gender. Eventually, the anguish has resulted in my seeking professional help, and coming here as well.

 

I am a 60 year MTF who is happily married yet none of the joy of marriage or a wonderful family can replace the need to be me, to be the woman I was born to be. I have begun taking OTC hormones, and the small yet obvious changes are only a first step to where I want to be. Any thoughts, suggestions, etc., are appreciated.

 

Hugs, and thanks,

 

Allison

[VickySGV]

Welcome -- First, please STOP taking the OTC hormone stuff, it is dangerous, and is a terrible waste of money.  We know that so well that we do not allow discussion of them here on the Forums. 

 

I actually began medically supervised hormone therapy at 60 and it was the very right thing to do for me.  Even with the prescribed hormones, I did develop a blood clot which is one of the dangers, but I was able to get proper medical care for the thing and it is now cleared up without any of the associated health problems.  We can give you a lot of help and friendship here even though we are strict on that item.  Your girlish smile is brighter when you are healthy.

[Allison Meadows]

Thanks, that is why I am now scheduled to talk with someone, and to see a doctor whose discretion I can trust

[Carolyn Marie]

Welcome to Trans Pulse, Allison.  It is never too late to start this journey, so I applaud you and encourage you and wish you all the best.  It is rarely easy, and it can be exceedingly hard, particularly on families as well as ourselves.  I began my journey at the age of 55 and now am 11 years into it, and have never been happier.  Please do ask all the questions you like.  We'll be here to assist however we can.  Thanks for adhering to our "Rules of the Road," too. 

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

[KathyLauren]

Hi, Allison.  Welcome!

 

I, too, an in the over-60 crowd.  It sounds like our stories are quite similar.  I am glad that you are getting proper help with your transition.  Don't hesitate to ask questions.  Most of us have been in similar positions in our journeys.

 

Regards,

Kathy

[TommieAnne]

Hi and welcome Allison (sorry to be late to the welcome party)!

As it stands now, I won't start HRT until almost age 70, so it's never too late.

This is a great place to ask questions, read (there's even a size chart guide), learn and find friendly coffee chat. I'm glad you found us!

TA

[ShawnaLeigh]

On 3/4/2020 at 5:02 PM, VickySGV said:

Welcome -- First, please STOP taking the OTC hormone stuff, it is dangerous, and is a terrible waste of money.  We know that so well that we do not allow discussion of them here on the Forums. 

 

I actually began medically supervised hormone therapy at 60 and it was the very right thing to do for me.  Even with the prescribed hormones, I did develop a blood clot which is one of the dangers, but I was able to get proper medical care for the thing and it is now cleared up without any of the associated health problems.  We can give you a lot of help and friendship here even though we are strict on that item.  Your girlish smile is brighter when you are healthy.

I second this and know from someone who once self medicated hrt it is very dangerous.  

 

On 3/4/2020 at 5:05 PM, Allison Meadows said:

Thanks, that is why I am now scheduled to talk with someone, and to see a doctor whose discretion I can trust

I am relieved to here this. 
Welcome to our family!❤️

[Chloé Rei]

Welcome Allison!