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Hello I'm Autumn and I'm 18 years old and female. I joined the forums to help support my MTF girlfriend (known to the forums as 1charlotte1). I am also hoping to get some help for myself. I have always identified myself as straight, so when Charlotte came out to me, it was very difficult for me to accept who she was. I am still having troubles, and hopefully I can get some help on how to overcome them.

~Autumn

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Autumn....

Well, you're at the right place!

Welcome to the Playground, Sweetheart...it's nice to have you here! And it's wonderful that you support Charlotte...we all need that as do you....

So, let me offer you some nice hot coco and some of Sally's cookies and you can get comfortable.

The others will be here to say "Hi" shortly.....

So nice to have you , Hon!

XXOO

Donna Jean

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Guest Ashlee

Hello Autumn,

So nice of you to join us. Welcome to the playground!

Charlotte is very lucky to have a girlfriend like you!

And the way to get answers to all those questions is to post, post, post!

There are many really great people here that are willing to help.

{HUGS}

Ashlee

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Guest ~Brenda~

Welcome my dear Autumn!!

What a wonderful friend you are to support Charlotte the way you are doing!! Yes Charlotte is a real dear. You have come to the right place to ask questions and to get answers!! I am sure Charlotte has told you this already!! Please come in and look around here. We do not judge nor harm anyone. Feel free to ask anything that is on your mind.

Welcome dear!!

bernii

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Guest 1charlotte1

Yayay! I found ya! Wassup?? Lolz! I'm so excited to have u here! (most of the peeps here are better with answers than me) T_T but I try! \m/>.<\m/ oh yeah!!

Love u autumn!!! Charlotte

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Hi Autumn,

Well I see that you have met a few of our friendly members and that you came alonge with one of them.

Charlotte is so lucky to have a friend like you .

A little confused perhaps but don't be too concerned about that - we all are or have been or soon will be! :D

Welcome to the forums ask anything you want to, the only stupid question is the one unasked.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest anex390
Yayay! I found ya! Wassup?? Lolz! I'm so excited to have u here! (most of the peeps here are better with answers than me) T_T but I try! \m/>.<\m/ oh yeah!!

Love u autumn!!! Charlotte

Aww thanks! I'm excited to be here as well! Everyone here is so nice and welcoming!!

Love you too Charlotte!!!

~Autumn

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Guest Nikk

Hey Autumn, nice to meet ya. It's really awesome that you're here to support your friend (dayum, I wish my friends were that cool), and welcome <3

~Nikk

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Guest 1charlotte1
Aww thanks! I'm excited to be here as well! Everyone here is so nice and welcoming!!

Love you too Charlotte!!!

~Autumn

*sigh* u can't be shy here k?? Or ima beat u up! Mwahaha! Jk. Don't wanna start a cat fight! Meow!

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  • Admin

Welcome to Laura's, Autumn. It's wonderful that you care enough about Charlotte to join her here and learn more about her transition. As you will see as you go through the posts, the lack of support from family and friends for so many of our TG's is one of the toughest things we go through. So having your support is unbelievably important. You are truly a great friend.

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Alyssa Leigh

Hi Autumn

Welcome to the playground, I think that it is awsome that you want to help support Charolette.

Alyssa

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Guest anex390
*sigh* u can't be shy here k?? Or ima beat u up! Mwahaha! Jk. Don't wanna start a cat fight! Meow!

Ohhh no!!! Have mercy!! Lol you know I am very shy hehehe

~Autumn

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Guest April63
Not much at the moment, just sitting at the computer. Nice to meet you! What's up?

Nice to meet you too. Pretty much the same thing :P

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Guest NeverSayNever

Hi, welcome to Laura's! I hope you enjoy your stay here.

It's great that you're supporting Charlotte :) She's very lucky to have someone like you.

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Guest Sophie H

Hi Autumn, Welcome to the forum. Its so nice to see you supporting Charlotte. You will find the forum full of information and people always will to help and offer advice. Lovely to have you here

Sophie

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Guest Elizabeth K

Autumn

WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME

Do you know after 5 or more posts you can PM (Private Message) anyone? Its easier for those who are a bit private or shy.

Lizzy

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Guest Marissa Anastasia

Hello Autumn,

It's wonderful that you support your boyfriend...it will make a huge difference in his life and spare him a lot of pain that so many others have dealt with...glad to have you with us and your perspective as a female will be most valuable to us and perhaps other wives.

Welcome!

Love,

Marissa

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