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Hi there, im marshall! Im a little anxious to share my story. 

 

when i was in middle school, my 1st year, i started to suspect i was trans. I wasnt new to the lgbt community so i knew the "guidelines" of being trans so to speak (not that we have a guide lol) so i thought about it for awhile. I told my step dad, thinking he'd be understanding and he'd keep it a secret, but alas i was wrong. He had told my mother, and i was guilt tripped into presenting female for a while. Always being told that i couldnt be male as i never acted like a guy (which was a lie, i was the definition of emo teenage boy in ms/hs) . lately however! My mom and step dad broke it off, allowing us to express everything we kept hidden. I came out to my mom and ive started to transition!! She even helped me pick a name and she was there for me when i needed her. 

Now ive comfortably been using they/ them & he/him pronouns! 

I dont know if this counts as an intro but im excited to meet some new people and make some friends!

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Hello Marshall, pleased to meet you and welcome to the forums!

 

Hugs!

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Hey Marshall! Welcome to the forum! I am glad to hear that your mom is supporting you, it sounds like it was for the best that your stepdad and mom broke things off. 

 

I am here for ya if you ever have questions, we could bounce some stories off each other some time! You're intro was spot on dude haha. 

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31 minutes ago, Aidan5 said:

Hey Marshall! Welcome to the forum! I am glad to hear that your mom is supporting you, it sounds like it was for the best that your stepdad and mom broke things off. 

 

I am here for ya if you ever have questions, we could bounce some stories off each other some time! You're intro was spot on dude haha. 

Thank you!! And yeah, my stepdad wasnt the nice guy we thought he was in the end so im happy my mom left him. And id love to share stories sometime! 

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42 minutes ago, Jackie C. said:

Hello Marshall, pleased to meet you and welcome to the forums!

 

Hugs!

Hugs!! Its nice to meet you ?

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39 minutes ago, Marshall said:

Thank you!! And yeah, my stepdad wasnt the nice guy we thought he was in the end so im happy my mom left him. And id love to share stories sometime! 

Glad it worked out in the end! Hope the good vibes keeps up!

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Welcome Marshall and yes this counts as an intro!  I'm glad you found us.  

 

Jani

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Welcome Marshall glad you are here! I’m happy to hear that your mom supports your transition that is awesome.

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Hi Marshall and welcome! This is a very supportive and friendly forum, I'm glad you are here with us ? And I'm glad to hear your mother is supportive of you. It's one of the greatest things to have your mother's love and support in this. 

 

~Toni

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Hello and welcome to the forums, Marshall.

That was a very nice introduction. I got a chuckle out of your "guideline" for being trans quip. For a moment I was like "wait, you mean there's a handbook for this?"

Glad you found us.

TA

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Hello Marshall.

 

 Do you like Horses?

 

The name Marshall is a Norman French occupational term that originally denoted someone who looked after horses

Come on in and take a seat. I look forwald to reading your input.

 

Or you could always take the name From Marshall P Nut in Carry on Cowboy. But then thats very brittish. Maybe im going to deep ?

 

Welcome to the Forum

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Welcome Marshall.  Glad you found us.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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9 hours ago, Maid In Bedlam said:

Hello Marshall.

 

 Do you like Horses?

 

The name Marshall is a Norman French occupational term that originally denoted someone who looked after horses

Come on in and take a seat. I look forwald to reading your input.

 

Or you could always take the name From Marshall P Nut in Carry on Cowboy. But then thats very brittish. Maybe im going to deep ?

 

Welcome to the Forum

I actually used to take care of horses when i was younger! Thank you for the warm welcome ?

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