Anybody Else Feel This?

[Guest Emily H]

Not sure if this is the right place to post this. But, its odd how I feel/think.

As a guy, I sometimes feel like I should be a girl, like, physiologically. But most of the time, I like being a guy.

The thing is, when I dress, I either feel like myself, or I feel more girly, or sometimes I have the desire to just not be feminine.

Its a weird feeling, of conflicting. Every now and then I long for a permanent change of being a girl, but most of the time, I just want to to dress like one, not permanently be one, or, just wish I could stay who I am but wearing girls clothes.

In conclusion, I am sure I am just a crossdresser, but I occasionally get the strong urge to be a biological female, whether or not I am currently dressed like one. I guess everyone does. But for others, it just feels wrong to not be female.

Ugh, I'm tired of talking of psychology, I'd much rather talk about fashion, like, what the heck is this outfit I'm wearing called?

PS. What Im wearing, is some night time outfit, a top with very thin straps, goes down about to the belly, then a matching panty type garment on the bottom, looks like a slightly thicker pair of panties that is cut skinnier at just about the very bottom, so its slightly like a thong/panty hybrid.... Hm, maybe I should just find a google picture of it.

[gennee]

Wow, I have felt the same way at times in my life. While I won't transition, I rather wear women's clothing. I feel complete and natural wearing them. I'll take a pretty dress over a suit any day.

I have flirted with idea of wanting to be a female, but I totally happy as a crossdresser.

Gennee

[Guest Evan_J]

Just make sure there's not a person wearing it if you find a picture. (The "no underwear pictures" part of the site rules) I think a catalog type picture of the item though would be okay....(I seem to remember a certain pair of "tanga panties" ) Anyhow your outfit sounds like whats called a "babydoll". google an image of that word along with the word "lingerie" and see if that's it.

[Guest ~Brenda~]

Hey Some,

Expressing one's femininity with clothes that feel right is an awesome feeling!! Believe me, I so do know!! Remember hon, that at Laura's children and their parents are seeing these posts too. Also anyone who is bent on trying to tear this place down is just aching for any reason to shut Laura's down will attempt to at the slightest inclination of impropriety. So with that said dear, be very careful on underwear or lingerie descriptions of attire. It could be misconstrued that Laura's is a deviant place. Being trans is mis-understood by almost everyone and they all think that we are deviant in some way. So, hon, be careful.

I am glad that you feel good crossdressing!! I do too!! I don't mean to scare you hon. I just want you to be aware of what is at stake!!

LOL

bernii

[Guest Ashlee]

Oh, I get many of those same feelings too.

There are days that I just love being able to dress enfemme and it feels oh, so good doing so.

Then there are days that I need to be in male mode to "get some things done" that just would be silly doing in a skirt or dress

And, there are those days when I have to be in male mode but can only think about the next time I get to dress up.

But, I'm happy as a crossdresser too. Its the level that works in my life. You too will find that level of comfort that lets you be who you want to be.

{HUGS}

Ashlee

[Guest Emily H]

Ah yes, sorry, heh, wasn't really thinking. It WAS like, 2 AM or so. I'll be more careful and such.

Its always great to hear the input of others. It makes you feel, not necessarily less alone, but more... hm, I guess there's really no word for it. But I'm sure you all know what i"m saying.

[Guest Joanna Phipps]

Just make sure there's not a person wearing it if you find a picture. (The "no underwear pictures" part of the site rules) I think a catalog type picture of the item though would be okay....(I seem to remember a certain pair of "tanga panties" ) Anyhow your outfit sounds like whats called a "babydoll". google an image of that word along with the word "lingerie" and see if that's it.

either that or a peignoir (sp?) either way its spelled cute

[Guest jdt]

YES I FEEL THE SAME AS YOU I LIKE BEING A MAN BUT LOVE DRESSING UP BUT I HAVE DECIDED TO GROW BREAST AND AM HAPPY IN DOING SO

[Guest rachael1]

I think I would like to take it further and possibly transition.

Unfortunately my circumstanses due to family and work commitments make this just a dream.

Maybe in the future?

So I have to make do for now I guess.

Hugs

Rachael

[Carolyn Marie]

I feel the same conflicts you do. Sometimes I'm sure I'm "just" a cross dresser, and sometimes I'm sure

that I'm trans.

I'm going to see a therapist soon to try to get a better handle on it and discover which way

is the real me. It should be interesting, to say the least!

I'll let you all know how it goes.

SomeGuy, you can PM me if you want to discuss further. Good luck.

Carolyn Marie