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Nikki paige

Hi I’m Nikki and I’ve tried rice water , constantly brushing, wearing a hat not wearing a hat many different shampoos and I can’t find anything that will make my hair grow long and healthy. Anyone got any tips or garented solutions?

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Hi Nikki, Welcome to Transpulse. It’s a pleasure to have you here with us. As you know nothing is guaranteed except death and taxes but I swear by Biotin (Vitamin B7) for skin, hair, and nails. My wife bought some for me after a terrible haircut last year. She knew I needed to grow it out fast and it really did the trick. It has also improved my nails exponentially. Results are always individual but you might wanna give it a try and report back your results.

 

If you have a moment and feel up to the task, why not share a bit about you and what brought you to our doorstep. I’m sure you have an interesting story as many here do. No pressure just whenever you’re ready.

 

Warmest Regards,

Susan R?

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Neem oil, coconut oil, aloe leaf jelly, garlic oil, or onion juice. Was losing a bit much in the front from rubbing and pulling hair back.

Coconut and aloe is the best but neem oil can be added but becareful tis a strong sustance. I'd see a specialist, before hand and weigh your options, also a dietitian can help you create a diet to providing those materials to get that hair growing in. Unless you lost the hair growth completely, but their are ways.

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