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Androgynes And Breasts


Guest Kino

Androgynes and breasts  

34 members have voted

  1. 1. As a female-born androgyne:

    • I'm comfortable with my breasts
      1
    • I'm not comfortable with my breasts but wouldn't seek top surgery
      8
    • I'm seeking or have acquired top surgery
      5
    • N/A - I'm a male-born androgyne
      20
  2. 2. As a male-born androgyne:

    • I'm comfortable with my chest
      1
    • I'm not comfortable with my chest but wouldn't seek breast growth/augmentation
      6
    • I'm seeking or have acquired breast growth/augmentation
      13
    • N/A - I'm a female-born androgyne
      14


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Guest Kino

After reading the poll on top surgery I was curious about androgynes that like their breasts or never grew any in the first place, so this is intended as a complement to that poll.

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Guest Elizabeth K

You may not get much response as androgne people are sorta quiet here at Laura's, not that many maybe.

Lizzy

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Guest Ryles_D

I'm neutrois, not androgyne, not sure if I should answer, and I hate my breasts. Want them gone. I have never met a neutrois who would want to add breasts- but it might happen.

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Guest Valentine

You didn't leave an option that I feel right answering.

I am a male that would be interested in larger breasts, but cannot afford to get them. It isn't something that I would do without a doctors supervision, so internet scams are not for me.

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Guest Kino
I'm neutrois, not androgyne, not sure if I should answer, and I hate my breasts. Want them gone. I have never met a neutrois who would want to add breasts- but it might happen.

Mm, I can't see neutrois wanting breasts either. I think it's fair to say that neutrois negate genders whilst androgynes integrate them. I'm still not sure how androgynes feel about breasts but it's clearer to me that neutrois wouldn't want them.

You didn't leave an option that I feel right answering.

I am a male that would be interested in larger breasts, but cannot afford to get them. It isn't something that I would do without a doctors supervision, so internet scams are not for me.

Do you mean to afford financially or? Not sure if I can edit the poll but thanks for pointing out my oversight. Would you be comfortable with 'Interested but unable to acquire breast growth/augmentation'? What circumstances would have to change before you could follow up on you interest?

I am a male born androgen who would like breast but only when I want them so a temporary situation is my goal.

Would attachable breast forms be a compromise? It's debatable but I'd consider that to be a kind of augmentation.

Male bodied, but I'd like to be female, including breasts. No bigger than a B-cup though. Preferably smaller.

I'm in the same situation. I want breasts compatible with guy-mode but if the world was ready for it, well... ;) Do you mean as a female bodied androgyne? MtF? Are you pursuing this?

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Guest Valentine

Kino, yes I mean financially. Your other option, and an equivalent one for females would be good.

In order for me to actually start pursuing breast augmentation, I would need to increase my income to the point so that I could afford the doctors visits and medical treatments.

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Guest Ryles_D
Mm, I can't see neutrois wanting breasts either. I think it's fair to say that neutrois negate genders whilst androgynes integrate them. I'm still not sure how androgynes feel about breasts but it's clearer to me that neutrois wouldn't want them.

Yeah, exactly. My thought was "I suppose it's possible for a neutrois to want breasts but I really can't see it happen...". whcih is also why I didn't really want to answer the poll- I'm sure it's different for androgynes.

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Guest Nire

I kind of like having a flat chest if I did want breasts they would probably be pretty small or maybe normal if I was comfortable with it. I'm not sure what I would vote for though because I'm not entirely sure if I'm comfortable with my chest though.

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Guest androgynous

I think I won't go for that idea, it pondered my mind but I find it too drastic. Everything permanent is worth to think over a few hundred times in my opinion. That said, if I went on a hormone cure I surely will get anything larger than a D, probably a double DD since it runs in the family so to speak. And I won't settle for the idea of implants, way to unnatural for my personal taste. Pretending you have a couple goes a long way, plus my breast as a male are somewhat muscular as well, making it a small A already :lol:

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Guest Tori-OC

well......... im male born, & been on hrt for like a 11 mo. now... i like my large A cups... would have surgery (if i had excess of $) to make be more natural looking... hard to explain... like w/ a small fold at the bottom & nipples angled up... hope that makes sense.....

but im happy with the size... don't really want like a B cup or bigger... that would just be odd....

but they are big enough for people to comment on (like my little brother & soon-to-be brother in law)

im excited !!!!!!!!! :)..... im gonna go get my a sports bra .... my first one ever... (except for the ones i used for fake boobs i had) omg those fakes felt real!!!!!!! LMAO..... anyways.....

Electro SUCKED today!!! face hurts lol

k bye

oh add me to your yahoo.... [email protected]

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Tori-OC: Congrats on the first sports bra! =D

I'm a female born gender-fluid androgyne with B cups. I'm small enough to bind them well if I care to, but I never bother. When I lose a bit of weight, though, I'll give it a go. Right now my weight is average for my height, but I'd rather be slim-and-straight than slightly-curvy. When my hips are less noticeable, I'll be more comfortable binding.

There are times that I would prefer to be flat-chested, and I often envy my small-chested female friends. But to be honest, having breasts is fun. I'd rather have them and bind them occasionally than not have them at all.

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Guest Tammy Maher

If I may add something in here...

Male bodied, but I'd like to be female, including breasts. No bigger than a B-cup though. Preferably smaller.

As MtF I understand wanting breasts. For a while I didn't want anything over a B-Cup, but once I realized how small the would be for me I decided I want C-Cups.

well......... im male born, & been on hrt for like a 11 mo. now... i like my large A cups... would have surgery (if i had excess of $) to make be more natural looking... hard to explain... like w/ a small fold at the bottom & nipples angled up... hope that makes sense.....

but im happy with the size... don't really want like a B cup or bigger... that would just be odd....

but they are big enough for people to comment on (like my little brother & soon-to-be brother in law)

im excited !!!!!!!!! :)..... im gonna go get my a sports bra .... my first one ever... (except for the ones i used for fake boobs i had) omg those fakes felt real!!!!!!! LMAO..... anyways.....

Electro SUCKED today!!! face hurts lol

k bye

oh add me to your yahoo.... [email protected]

Good job. I guess you are kind of going a partial transition? I understand, and that's really cool.

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Um now for my thoughts...

As MtF, as I have said I though Bs would be a good size, but I really want Cs mainly because Bs are a bit small for me and I could never live with D cups (too big). I'm going to ask this next question in my own topic, but is there like a vitamin female supplement that only encourages breast growth? Not HRT, but just for breasts? Okie That's all for now...

(^_^)/

Janelle

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Guest Thorndrop

I'm genetically female but consider myself androgynous, and I hate my breasts. I'm only an A-cup, but it's not the point, I still hate them. In fact, one of my earliest memories was of when a family member had breast cancer and had to get her breasts removed, and I remember thinking about how much I'd like to have mine removed too when I got older (I was about 10 at the time and had the tiniest things starting to appear on my chest). I'd definetly consider removal, but am not 100% sure about having it either.

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