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Sheilasayan

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Well first i want to say Hello and very glad to have found this site.  I am 51 and been struggle to hid myself for years, you know as most of us have been told be a man.  Well i got to the point where i cant any more and came looking for understanding and support.  Cant transition yet, at least not in public but at least i am accepting who i am.  Glad to have found others to help keep me sane and to know i am not crazy .  thanks for listening

 

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Hi Sheilasayan, welcome to the forum :)

 

Thank you for your introduction. Please don't hesitate to read and join in. People are friendly here and you should soon find your feet.

 

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Welcome Sheila! I too am a late bloomer as well, suppressing & denying the feminine feelings for so long & often feeling miserable about it. Finally accepting my femme was such a big relief.

 

Hugs!

Delcina

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20 hours ago, Sheilasayan said:

at least i am accepting who i am.  Glad to have found others to help keep me sane and to know i am not crazy .

Welcome @Sheilasayan. It is really nice to finally meet you. I have heard so many good things about you and hope to get to know you in the future. You’re among friends here and we accept you and others just as you are no matter where you are in your journey and no matter how you identify.

 

I hope to read more about you and your journey as you feel comfortable. So when ever you’re ready, feel free to share or ask questions as they arise. We will try to do our very best to provide you friendship and support.

 

Warmest Regards,

Susan R?

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Hi Sheilasayan!  nice to meet you, and Welcome!

On 3/23/2021 at 2:06 PM, Sheilasayan said:

came looking for understanding and support.  Cant transition yet, at least not in public but at least i am accepting who i am. 

Well you definitely found the right place, and Self-Acceptance is one of the biggest obstacles to overcome.  So, Congratulations❣️

 

Look forward to hearing more from you ..

Deep breaths .. one step at at time

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I thank you all for your support and encouragement, I am very happy my friend pointed me to you all.  It makes my days a bit easier knowing I have others I can talk and share with.

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Thank you both very much, and glad i found all of you.

 

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Ronni

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Welcome Sheila.  You are certainly not alone.  I can't say if you are crazy or not but having gender issues is certainly not crazy.  

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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