It Won't Save The Marriage

[Guest Joanna Phipps]

I know that there is no power on this earth that will save my marriage, now the differences are much too great and even if I decided not to transition (good luck on that) the mere fact that I am a woman in a man's body would stop her from being romantically involved with me.

I know it sounds like I'm going to launch into another of my evil expartner monologues but this one is actually rather positive for a change. There have been times where she could not look at me when I am dressed gender appropriately, however today not only did we have a chance to talk over the split of the household items and other things but I was dressed in my favorite green skirt and white blouse. She had no trouble talking to me civilly or even looking me in the eye as we talked.

She has some issues with what to call me, but maybe if I am dressed properly more often it will help her out.

surprised but relieved

[Sally]

That's a good step, and really all you can ask for is civility.

We have dumped a big surprise on them and expect them to just take it and be happy.

I just wish that they all could at least be polite.

Mine hasen't spoken since the day she left - should make mediation interesting.

Love ya,

Sally

[Guest Joanna Phipps]

That's a good step, and really all you can ask for is civility.

We have dumped a big surprise on them and expect them to just take it and be happy.

I just wish that they all could at least be polite.

Mine hasen't spoken since the day she left - should make mediation interesting.

Love ya,

Sally

We have the list of who wants what of the major items, sorting the storage locker is going to be a long and emotionally painful process. I don't know if she will want to speak to me once I move out or if its going to be some much emotional water under yet another burned bridge. I know I have my Naomi beside me through this and its good she is; as nobody should have to walk the transition trail alone. The ex doesn't know what to make of my change in sexuality and I'm not sure I could explain it if asked. As long as the ex and her daughter are civil that's all I can ask and hope for.

[Guest ~Brenda~]

Dearest Joanna,

I am very sorry to hear about you and your wife splitting up. I know that all too well. Coming out to her was a very big step and I am sure it was not easy. I am glad to hear that you can be yourself with her and things remain civil between you.

Love

bernii