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Timber Wolf

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Timber Wolf

Hi everyone,

 

Just let me blow my own horn this once. I've been clean 15 years today!🎉🎊🎈

 

How did I do it, you ask? I'll tell you. One day at a time!

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf🐾

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KathyLauren

Well, that is something worth blowing your horn for.  Congratulations!

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VickySGV

Happy RE-birth day!! 

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Charlize

You are a miracle dear.  Love ya! and

CONGRATULATIONS

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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Congratulations, Timber Wolf!

 

Perhaps courage is a greater accomplishment if it envolves

the persistence it takes to get up and face the disease each day . . .

for a whole lotta days.

Congrats,

 

--Davie

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Jackie C.

Happy (late) congratulations!

 

Hugs!

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