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I am Beverley.I am a new girl on here.I have officially been a crossdresser since I was twelve in 1972.In common with many I started by trying on my mom's pantyhose and eventually went om to wear her skirts.I dressed privately off and on in my bedroom until I got married in 1992.Comtinued to be in the closet until coming  out to my wife in 2004.It took her another twelve years to accept.In 2016 I took the plunge and dressed in front of her.She was shocked and still unaccepting.However,the next day she had a change of heart and said  that I could dress up at home providing she bought all my clothes.After a while she became more  and accepting and has encouraged me every step of the way.She says I always look nice.As we are both retired I can be Beverley every day when I am at home.We have a lovely  girly time chatting about clothes,pantyhose/ tights and lingerie.I would love for us to go out as ladies but my wife has fears for my safety.Maybe one day perhaps.Looking forward to meeting you all and participating in the forums.

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Hello Beverley and welcome.  Sounds like things are going well.  Unfortunately some areas are dangerous to be out in.

 

Cheers, 

Jani

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8 hours ago, Jani said:

Hello Beverley and welcome.  Sounds like things are going well.  Unfortunately some areas are dangerous to be out in.

 

Cheers, 

Jani

Thank you for your kind welcome Jani.

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Hi Beverley,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf🐾

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14 minutes ago, Timber Wolf said:

Hi Beverley,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf🐾

Thank you Timber Wolf.I am thrilled to be here.

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Welcome Beverley.  Like you i hid and only came out to my wife in retirement.  I had started moving about in public as myself years before my wife knew.  She was worried about my safety but after a month + camping trip across the country both she and i gained confidence.  It is just lovely to be honest with the woman with whom i've spent over 50 years.

 

Hugs, 

 

Charlize

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1 hour ago, Charlize said:

Welcome Beverley.  Like you i hid and only came out to my wife in retirement.  I had started moving about in public as myself years before my wife knew.  She was worried about my safety but after a month + camping trip across the country both she and i gained confidence.  It is just lovely to be honest with the woman with whom i've spent over 50 years.

 

Hugs, 

 

Charlize

Thank you Charlize.

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28 minutes ago, Delcina B said:

Welcome Beverley! Glad you're here. Happy your wife supports you.

 

Hugs!

Delcina

Thanks very much Delcina.

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Good morning Beverley, it's nice to meet you here on TransPulseForums.

I'm so glad you have a supportive wife, and that you've reached retirement.

 

Best wishes, stay positive, and safe,

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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1 hour ago, Mmindy said:

Good morning Beverley, it's nice to meet you here on TransPulseForums.

I'm so glad you have a supportive wife, and that you've reached retirement.

 

Best wishes, stay positive, and safe,

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

Hi Mmindy.Thanks for your kind words. 

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Hello Beverley! I'm Sol!

The ladies' time sounds really sweet and awesome and I love that your wife became more accepting and supports you. I kind of want a ladies' time, but more like an "I don't really feel like anything" time. That'd be nice.

Either way, welcome to TransPulse, don't be afraid to ask lots of questions, and have fun!

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1 hour ago, Currently Q said:

Hi Beverley!
Looks like you beat me here by a day!  Even still, welcome!  Hopefully we both find a nice community here!

 

1 hour ago, Currently Q said:

Hi Beverley!
Looks like you beat me here by a day!  Even still, welcome!  Hopefully we both find a nice community here!

Thanks Currently Q.And welcome to you too.I'm confident that we will both love it on here and make many friends.

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Welcome Beverley,

I have no idea how safe Wales is. I've only visited it for a short period while looking up some family history but my take was it's pretty "salt of the earth" as we say on this side of the pond.  What a lot of us have discovered over here is, even some of the most conservative areas of our country can be very accepting and courteous in a one on one personal interaction. And the opposite occurs as well, in very "accepting" areas of the country you can face discrimination and hate.  One thing I've found that helps is being completely confident in who you are.  If you walk tall and confident people tend to respect you more regardless of their views.  Good luck and I look forward to seeing your posts.

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