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Hello,

I am Roxie ( my nickname), I'm questioning my gender due to not knowing! But, thank you for letting me be here, hugs!

Take care,

 

Roxie 💖 

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Salutations Roxie! Welcome to TransPulse!

 

Fun fact: Cis-people don't, as a rule, question their gender. It sounds insane, but it's true.

 

You know what's also a fun fact? We don't always fit into neat little boxes. Labels aren't all that important. What you need to know is that you're a perfect example of a Roxie and we just need to figure out what makes them comfortable in their own skin. That'll help Roxie become the best person they can possibly be.

 

So we've got a couple of NBs lurking about. They're great people, and I'll bet you can learn a lot here. Please feel free to post, ask questions and generally interact with the community. We're glad you're here!

 

Hugs!

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2 minutes ago, Jackie C. said:

Salutations Roxie! Welcome to TransPulse!

 

Fun fact: Cis-people don't, as a rule, question their gender. It sounds insane, but it's true.

 

You know what's also a fun fact? We don't always fit into neat little boxes. Labels aren't all that important. What you need to know is that you're a perfect example of a Roxie and we just need to figure out what makes them comfortable in their own skin. That'll help Roxie become the best person they can possibly be.

 

So we've got a couple of NBs lurking about. They're great people, and I'll bet you can learn a lot here. Please feel free to post, ask questions and generally interact with the community. We're glad you're here!

 

Hugs!

Heya

Thank you!

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38 minutes ago, Jackie C. said:

Salutations Roxie! Welcome to TransPulse!

 

Fun fact: Cis-people don't, as a rule, question their gender. It sounds insane, but it's true.

 

You know what's also a fun fact? We don't always fit into neat little boxes. Labels aren't all that important. What you need to know is that you're a perfect example of a Roxie and we just need to figure out what makes them comfortable in their own skin. That'll help Roxie become the best person they can possibly be.

 

So we've got a couple of NBs lurking about. They're great people, and I'll bet you can learn a lot here. Please feel free to post, ask questions and generally interact with the community. We're glad you're here!

 

Hugs!

Hugs 🤗 

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, Roxiee!  I know you have a lot on your mind and a lot of questions, but we're here to help in every way we can.  I am glad you've been participating in many of the forums, which is a great way to make friends and learn.  Please continue doing so.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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Hi Roxeei,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf🐾

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Hello @Roxiee and welcome!   I think you'll find this a good group to hang with.  There are members of all ages from all over the globe.  Please join in!

Cheers, Jani

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4 hours ago, Roxiee said:

Hiii ty all

Hey there Roxiee,

I will say one thing about being part of the Old Folks here. It takes me awhile to figure out the shorthand aka text abbreviations used those under 30 years of age. I've even had to copy to google for help. Don't worry about me keeping up, it good to be challenged, and learn new context for English. With us being separated by age and an ocean, I sure if we ever spoke live to one another it would take some eyebrow raising to figure each other out.

 

Stay positive, and safe

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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On 1/23/2022 at 8:51 AM, Roxiee said:

Hello,

I am Roxie ( my nickname), I'm questioning my gender due to not knowing! But, thank you for letting me be here, hugs!

Take care,

 

Roxie 💖 

Hi Roxie, It’s wonderful to have you among our ranks. As you will undoubtedly see, there are plenty of people who enjoy learning more about you and your backstory. If you care to share more, please do. Your story and insight just might help someone here. I know I have learned a lot during my time here.

 

It’s nice to meet you,

Susan R🌷

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What be up Roxie

Welcome to the best forum you will ever need. 

Great people with amazing warmth and compassion..

 

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Sorry I'm late but welcome to the forums. As you browse around and join in on discussion I'm confident you will find all the love and support you need to help you navigate figuring out your identity and what that means for you. Good luck and I look forward to seeing your posts

Hugs

Bri

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Welcome Roxiee we are glad you are here.

Figuring out just who we are can be difficult but there are members here that feel the same way you do so you are never really alone.

Understanding  it all takes time and a lot depends on how you react with others and how you take their advice or not take it.

Everybody is different and what works for some doesn't  work for others.

There is no black and white answer for any trans person.

I have been out for 14 years and I am still learning things here and there.

One thing I have learned you can't force people to accept you being trans and a lot depends on you being a good person.

Don't get mad at people for not understanding and don't try to force them to.

I learned this nugget from a trans lady that has been out for over 50 years.

Her advice has be so valuable to me on how to deal with  life being trans.

Being trans is not a new thing it has existed for centuries.

 

 

 

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On 1/25/2022 at 4:08 AM, Susan R said:

Hi Roxie, It’s wonderful to have you among our ranks. As you will undoubtedly see, there are plenty of people who enjoy learning more about you and your backstory. If you care to share more, please do. Your story and insight just might help someone here. I know I have learned a lot during my time here.

 

It’s nice to meet you,

Susan R🌷

Is there a teen forum like this for teens?? As, I don't feel like I fit in!

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1 minute ago, Roxiee said:

Is there a teen forum like this for teens?? As, I don't feel like I fit in!

 

I'm sorry you feel like that sweetie. You might have more luck on our Discord?

 

Hugs!

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20 hours ago, Jackie C. said:

 

I'm sorry you feel like that sweetie. You might have more luck on our Discord?

 

Hugs!

I don't use it!

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