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avoided a very awkward situation at the DR. office by thinking fast.


Moira Arista

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Recently I had a Dr. appointment for my annual physical. I was wearing a dress that day, with bare legs. However, I quickly thought to throw on some white leggings on just incase my Dr, who is an endocronologist got uncomfortable. Well during the physical, imagine my surprise when my Dr. asked if it was ok if he lifted my dress to tap my tummy to feel my liver. I said yes, because I was wearing my while leggings. If I hadn't thought to throw on my leggings, my Dr. would've gotten an eyeful of my white nylon string thong. It has a little triangle to cover my  Vagina,(I'm Pre Op, so I don't have one yet, but prefer to call that area my Vagina for the day when I will get one). As he tapped on my tummy, all I could think was Thank You God, for sending my brain the message to wear my leggings at the last minute.

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A well thought-out solution, Moira.  Glad it worked out well.  But I doubt the doctor would have freaked out if he saw your thong; if he had, he's probably in the wrong profession.  😆

 

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24 minutes ago, Carolyn Marie said:

A well thought-out solution, Moira.  Glad it worked out well.  But I doubt the doctor would have freaked out if he saw your thong; if he had, he's probably in the wrong profession.  😆

 

Carolyn Marie

true, and he knows I'm transgender Female. You never know though.

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I think I would have felt funny in a thong myself.  LOL

 

9 hours ago, Moira Arista said:

…prefer to call that area my Vagina…

I am pre-op and tend to think of my useless equipment that way myself.  Due to my previous hormonal imbalance, it is inside-out.

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unless he is a new Dr. most have seen much worse. Than a girl in a sheer thong.

 

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I experience something similar with a dress that the bottom part is made like a skirt but very short. I was in the psych ward by a window that shows the whole hospital in a huge open area and wasn't wearing any panties or such... When I bended over to pick something up I dropped on the floor, the "skirt" lifted to show underneath and my balls... People have watched that! @_@

 

Now I know that I have to learn bending over or kneeling down, even sitting... when I wear some clothing xD

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On 9/1/2022 at 4:40 PM, Hannah Renee said:

"Oops, that wasn't supposed to happen."

I love your response! It surely takes a lot of self-confidence, but it brings it to the point. Things happen.

At this point in my life (second puberty) I probably would have run away crying or at least wished to sink into the ground.

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On 9/1/2022 at 10:49 AM, Azgalia said:

Now I know that I have to learn bending over or kneeling down, even sitting...

Getting out of a car!

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24 minutes ago, Ivy said:

Getting out of a car!

Knees together!!

 

I remember after heart surgery when i nurse ran down the hall to put a gown over my backside as i took my first post surgery walk.  Opps.  I was the antique road show.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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lol at the skirt talk 😂

 

The few times I've been able to wear skirts and dresses so far I have been like how the #^$% am I supposed to NOT give the whole world a look see when I tie my shoes?? Just another thing I am more than happy to learn :) 

 

 

 

 

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Yeah I just practiced the "closed leg squat" getting something out of the fridge/oven, I'm going to have great thighs in no time 😂

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