How do I work it out?

[Chanelle]

Hi ladies,

 

I hope this is where I should be posting this.. apologies if it's not. So I'm really confused about what gender identity I am. 

A little background..

- I've enjoyed female clothing from a young age although not as much as I do now       

- I find women extremely attractive and I enjoy sex with them.

- I don't really look at guys (maybe the rare one or two) and think 'omg he's sooo hawt!'.. but I know I'm at least bi - I had my fair share of experiences 'under the sheets' with male friends growing up and fully enjoyed them. I REALLY enjoy sex with guys.

- I've never had an emotional connection with a guy but I'm open to the idea of it

- More recently (the last 2 years) I've fully embraced my feminine side, dressing up, make up, jewellery, hair

- There is definitely a sexual component which I fully enjoy whilst immersed in my feminine mind and body

- I don't think (at this stage at least) I don't want to transition fully as I do enjoy being/identifying as male at times.

- I kind of feel like I have a masculine mind, but when I feel feminine, it's complete.. as it is when I'm in my male mind.

 

Is there any info that might help? Are there any particular questions I should be asking myself?

 

I'm currently mostly living as male, but geezus.. I yearn to let my woman free!  

 

Thanks in advance to those who reply, I really appreciate it.

Much love

Ell  

❤️ xx

[sevan]

perhaps bigender? a gender consisting of two separate gender identities. one can either experience them simultaneously or fluctuate between the two like genderfluid. the two genders are typically male and female [probably your case]; but it can also be two other genders

[Chanelle]

18 hours ago, sevan said:

perhaps bigender? a gender consisting of two separate gender identities. one can either experience them simultaneously or fluctuate between the two like genderfluid. the two genders are typically male and female [probably your case]; but it can also be two other genders

Thank you so much for replying. I'm really battling with this. Yes, I think what you're describing may at least be a somewhat loose description perhaps? I sit here writing this as a woman. Fully dressed, make up, hair, jewellery etc. I feel complete. But I'm not sure what my female side wants? Do people ask this? Once again, I'm confused.. thanks for answering,

 

Much love

El xx

[sevan]

1 hour ago, Chanelle said:

But I'm not sure what my female side wants? Do people ask this?

i did see a few people questioning this but since i have no experience offering your a potentially fitting label is the most i can offer. i hope youll get a firm grasp of your gender identity soon!

[Chanelle]

On 11/12/2022 at 3:18 PM, sevan said:

i did see a few people questioning this but since i have no experience offering your a potentially fitting label is the most i can offer. i hope youll get a firm grasp of your gender identity soon!

Thank you Sevan, you're very kind xx