Hello Everyone

[ConfusedKitty]

Hi, just call me Kitty. I don't want to use my real first name because it's rare, and it would be very easy to find me if you had an idea of my general location.

 

I've always been branded as female. I can't say I don't feel female, and I can't say that I do feel female. My feelings about it tend to drift back and forth. I present as female for now, though. I'm not out to basically anybody, so I joined this forum for a safe space to discuss things relatively anonymously. I have many trans, non-binary, and genderfluid friends, but I'm not comfortable talking to them about it yet. I know they know, but it's still more of an open secret.

 

I'm married with a toddler, and I have no idea how my husband would react. I suspect he wouldn't care much... in fact, I haven't brought it up specifically because I feel like it's such a non-issue. 

 

I just bought my first binders, and I'm waiting for them to come in the mail. I took the plunge because my husband bought me a sportswear one-piece with strong chest compression, and I became enamored with how it looks. I also went to a queer stylist who gave me an extremely androgynous hair cut. Now I just wear wigs when I want to be more feminine. I'm currently working up the courage to buy myself a 3 piece suit... maybe a cheaper one, to start.

 

Anyway, I'm hoping to find some help working through my feelings, with people in a similar boat, and with people who have already figured it out. 

[VickySGV]

Welcome Kitty this is a place to work on the problem you came here for. 

[Delcina B]

Welcome Kitty! Glad you're here! I hope you find the wonderful support, advice & acceptance here as I have.

 

Hugs!

Delcina 

[Carolyn Marie]

Welcome to Trans Pulse, Kitty.  It's nice to meet you.  There are many here who either are, or were, confused about gender and where they fit (or don't fit).  Please look around the forums and post in any thread, or start some of your own.  We're here to answer your questions as best we can.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

[Mmindy]

Good evening Kitty,

 

Welcome to TransPulseForums. As it has been mentioned before, you come to the right place to look around, and just be you. Join in on the various conversations. I hope you find this site as helpful as I do, sometimes it's like having your own Queer Google.  Ask a question and someone will be able to direct you to the right location.

 

Best wishes, stay positive, and motivated.

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋