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Just joined the forum and just wanted to say hello :) i am really excited to learn some things and let some of my thought out. Tonight was a very scary but amazing night. My fiencee who knows about me being trans and has been very supportive shaved my face and did my makeup for me. (have not seen under my beard in over 10 years) and the look was weird i felt like i was missing a part of me but once the makeup was on i felt right at home. This last month i have been pushing my limits on who i truely am more (known for roughly 5 years) and it is amazing to feel this way. Well thats my rant for now hope everyone is having just as amazing of a night as me. 

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Good morning and welcome @Julief71

 

Many of us hid behind the facial hair mask to prove we were somebody we weren't. I have a long background in the fire service, and you wouldn't believe the handlebar mustaches I've supported. Then after leaving the fire service, I grew the biker goatee.

 

You have a lovely smile and your hair is to be envied. I'm glad your fiancee is supportive and willing to help you be who you know yourself to be. There will be many other chime in and welcome you. Look around, and jump into any of the conversation threads, start one of your own. We're here to be supportive.

 

Best wishes, stay positive, and motivated,

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋 

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Hi, Julie.  Welcome!

 

That looks like the smile of someone who has just looked in the mirror and seen their true self.  Lovely!

 

I had a full beard for most of of my adult life.  My rationale for growing it was that "I shouldn't have to shave my face."  Unfortunately I didn't complete the thought and ask myself why I shouldn't have to until 30 years later.  Oh well, it worked out in the end.  And it looks like it is working out for you.

 

I am glad that your fiancée is supportive.

 

Regards,

Kathy

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Welcome Julie

I hid behind a chest length beard for many years.  It was a big step for me to shed it.

I symbolically burned some of it as a start to my new life.  (Admittedly it kinda stunk)

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, Julie!  It's nice to meet you.  You're welcome to post in any thread, or start some of your own.  We'll be ready to answer your questions and provide support whenever needed.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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On 1/15/2023 at 1:26 AM, Julief71 said:

This last month i have been pushing my limits on who i truely am more (known for roughly 5 years) and it is amazing to feel this way

Welcome @Julief71! Nice to have you onboard. You’re very lucky to have a supportive partner like that. It’s also nice that you’re able to experiment to see what feels right for you. I hope our forum can be a support for you. Most here, including myself, have been there. We advocate and support individuals living authentically and/or openly as themselves as they see fit. It’s your life and you are in control! So if you have any questions, need advice or just a friend, feel free to reach out. We are here for you!

 

Warmest Regards,

Susan R🌷

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