I need some help

[techno_kinnie]

hello, im having an issue that I would love some help with. recently I bought an STP and its been (mmm this is so weird to type out) overflowing and I have no idea how to fix it. I've actually been having a few issue with it, mainly the overflowing and that im not quite sure how to wear it. I have a harness coming in because I do not trust my boxers to hold it in place, but also I just dont know were to place it? im a plus sized but like, the hole for my boxers seems to high up and I defiantly can't get the packer through it. idk maybe the harness will help with all this and im working on strengthening a pelvic muscle that the place I bought the STP said could help. just want to know if maybe im doing something wrong, or if its just because im a beginner for now

 

 

 

 

[VickySGV]

I moved this post to the Female to Male forum where I think it will get more relevant attention.  We do have some great guys here.  The harness may help but you need to be sure the tube is clear and not blocked or folded on itself and restricting the flow.  Another source of help would be your local LGBTQ Center where you can get in-person help.  

[Vidanjali]

Hey @techno_kinnie . I have no experience with such a device, but I found this which has advice, a video, and a link to FAQs. Good luck! 

 

https://transthetics.com/tips-for-using-a-stand-to-pee-device/#:~:text=To further aid in easy,it very easy to access.&text=Another thing you'll want,is your choice of pants.

[Vidanjali]

P.S. Skimming the info, my take away is that there's a significant learning curve. So, I suggest patience and practice. Cheers! 

[Ryan]

What STP do you have?

 

If it's overflowing, you might have to learn to control your flow, or the hole at the tip of the shaft is too narrow. Though it would be helpful to know which STP you have if there's something else that might be the issue. 

 

Many guys don't use the hole in boxers, it mostly just gets in the way and too awkward to deal with. Pulling your STP over the waistband is much easier. 

[techno_kinnie]

1 hour ago, Ryan said:

What STP do you have?

 

If it's overflowing, you might have to learn to control your flow, or the hole at the tip of the shaft is too narrow. Though it would be helpful to know which STP you have if there's something else that might be the issue. 

 

Many guys don't use the hole in boxers, it mostly just gets in the way and too awkward to deal with. Pulling your STP over the waistband is much easier. 

I have the STP freely uncutXL from trans guy supplies

[techno_kinnie]

1 hour ago, Vidanjali said:

Hey @techno_kinnie . I have no experience with such a device, but I found this which has advice, a video, and a link to FAQs. Good luck! 

 

https://transthetics.com/tips-for-using-a-stand-to-pee-device/#:~:text=To further aid in easy,it very easy to access.&text=Another thing you'll want,is your choice of pants.

thank you :DDD ill take a look at the vid rate away ^^

[rootgrowth]

To be honest, I know it sucks but pretty much every STP out there is a scam. Only the really expensive ones ($300+) get consistently good reviews. And I'm guessing you're young based on your username so let me tell you right now no one cares if you piss in the stall. I used to try and hide the fact i had to piss in the stall for some reason, I would even wait to piss til there was no one in the bathroom. Weird sh*t

 

Anyway I suggest just getting a normal packer, you save a lot of money and stress. Get some packing underwear while you're at it because harnesses are uncomfortable.

 

Plus, its hard to do this at a urinal but it's not hard to piss standing up just stand close to the toilet w the seat up. You'll get it down after a while. Also with pissing in public just squat in a bush no one cares or is looking if you pick a good spot.

 

Finally with binders don't get gc2b get the underworks tri top binder it's waaaaaay better made.