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I'm new to this site, but I joined because I'm non-binary and looking for friends/support. I guess i've just been feeling lonely. :) 

Pluto is an alias, by the way. I'm still trying to come up with a name that fits me, as my "real" name is too feminine for my liking.

:D I hope I'll like it on here!

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Hi, Pluto.  Welcome!

 

I am sure you will like it here.  It's a great bunch of people, very supportive.

 

Regards,

Kathy

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Welcome, @PlutoTheOpposum ! Jump right into some conversations here & feel free to start your own thread about anything that interests you. Tell us some more about yourself. What has your journey of discovering your gender been like for you? I'm sorry you've been feeling lonely. Are there not many people around you can talk with? Do you have some supportive folks in your corner? 

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Welcome @PlutoTheOpposum

 

I hope you find this website as useful as I do. There are people of all walks of life, and Country here.

 

So Pluto is a fake name… Where does TheOpposum fit in? One of my favorite Country Singers was given the nickname Opossum aka George Jones. 

 

Best wishes, stay positive, and motivated, 

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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14 hours ago, PlutoTheOpposum said:

Pluto is an alias, by the way. I'm still trying to come up with a name that fits me, as my "real" name is too feminine for my liking.

 

 I mean, NBs have the BEST names. You COULD name yourself Pluto if you so chose. I know a lovely young man named Asteroid. Just saying.

 

Welcome to Transpulse!

 

Hugs!

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Thank you for all of your kind welcomes! I'm not sure ya'll will want to hear much about me as I'm really not that interesting of a person, but I'll share a bit :D

So I'm 14, which I know is very young. I've realized I was non-binary since I was around 12, and only recently found that bi-gender was the more accurate term for me. I still go by they/them, and I still identify as non-binary, but I do think bigender is a correct label. :)

As for my name @Jackie C., I thought Pluto was a very pretty name. It fits me, as the planet Pluto is in a category that is not a planet or a comet, and instead has its own little category. I may start going by that in person, but I doubt anybody will actually refer to me as that xD it's so wildly different from my "real" name. For the Opposum part of my name @Mmindy, Opposums are my favorite animal. They're just so cute and silly, and so I decided to mix my alias and favorite animal! 

 

As I mentioned before, I've been feeling really lonely about my gender identity. I have only a few people who support me, and I really can't look how I want to. Most people call me by she/her even after correcting them. I guess I'm just looking for some other trans/enby friends who I can talk to and support. :)

 

On a random note, do you guys have a favorite song artist? Mine is cavetown. He's a trans music artist that makes cute songs about mental health and his identity. He's not for everyone, but maybe somebody else will like him too! :D

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7 hours ago, PlutoTheOpposum said:

n a random note, do you guys have a favorite song artist? Mine is cavetown. He's a trans music artist that makes cute songs about mental health and his identity. He's not for everyone, but maybe somebody else will like him too! :D

 

Hadn't heard of him, but my current absolute favorite is Devon Cole.

 

Hugs!

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