I have no idea who I am

[Froggiesprog]

This is my first thing on here so it might be awkwardly written, 

basically, my parents are highly religious and that was pushed into me and I was always taught how wrong this whole thing is (which I don’t agree with) part of me is fighting mentally with what my mum and dad had always taught me growing up, I don’t like having a chest but I don’t think I’d want a penis either, that’s not for me, but I wish I didn’t have a chest, my mum said it was wrong to think like that and that I’d grow out of it, but ‘she/her’ makes me uncomfortable but so does ‘he/him’ I really don’t know much about this as I have spent ages avoiding the topic. Just wondered if someone could help with all this, it’s a lot! Sorry!!! 

[VickySGV]

All of us are here to listen to you, and possibly give you advice, but definitely give you support.  Gender is a wide spectrum that too many people refuse to see.  You sound like you are in place on that spectrum that we refer to as Non-Binary or  Androgynous which has characteristics of both genders to a point where they are blurred together.  It is going to be a nasty problem as long as you are living with your parents and are under their support but hopefully we can give you a communication resource to at least help you understand that you are not alone in the world.  It is NOT WRONG to think as you do, that is just YOU and you are what you are.  Welcome to the Forums.

[Ashley0616]

I understand my parents were the same way but I waited a long time to come out. My Mom thinks the same as yours but she has said that she does love me and that is it. Her and the pastor at her church tried to challenge me and I proved to her there is noting wrong with being transgendered. She brought up God made Adam and Eve but I also said the bible doesn't talk about everything because I brought up intersex and she had nothing to say other than I wasn't. I lost just about every family member. I have like four or five that I can still talk to. There are affirming churches that accept us too. God loves ALL PEOPLE He didn't say except anyone. It's not right for people to judge when their lives are messy too. You live for you and keep your head up. I'm on here quite frequently except Saturday because of college American football. Take care you joined the right group.