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A Good Thing Happened Today


emeraldmountain2

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Hi!

 

I just wanted to share something fun that happened today.

 

I'm in the relative beginnings of my transition on HRT. I've been wearing somewhat subtle women's outfits in public for a while now, but I went out shopping today wearing high heel boots for the first time, along with the women's clothing. The checkout person called me "ma'am" after looking at my face from just a few feet away, which was amazing! I've had this happen pre-transition, but it was from a person looking at me from afar.

 

I guess the hormones and my new style are working!

 

I know it might sound silly, but I was also so proud of myself for having the bravery to wear those feminine boots, as I have been terrified for years to wear anything feminine in public.

 

I had a smile on my face most of the way home. I am so, so grateful to finally have HRT in my life and to have built up the courage to present the way I love in public.

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I'm glad it worked out in your favor. HRT does have a magical effect on life. I have seen highs and lows which might stem from my bipolar. It's definitely wonderful on the high days.

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50 minutes ago, emeraldmountain2 said:

Thank you @Ashley0616 and @Timi!

 

I'll also add that not a single person on my shopping trip hassled me at all, which has always been a fear of mine when presenting in public.

Ever since I dressed out in public I think they'll leave you alone, if you leave them alone. You might get weird looks but other than that it has been uneventful and will hopefully be that way for you.

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Definitely a good thing.  What you're doing is getting you the results you're looking for!  Things will only get better as time goes along!

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Emerald, you are doing great! 

Going out the first time is scary, but the only thing we have to fear is fear itself. 

(((Virtual huggs)))

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