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How to end human suffering


Pheri-B

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The way to end human suffering is to love yourself fully. It took me 13 years to finally accept that I am a trans femme and to fully love myself. Now everything feels easier… sunshine and rainbows.  
 

I’m working towards socially transitioning.

 

I came out to my family yesterday and so far it’s gone pretty well. My partner is the most supportive person I could imagine and we have only grown closer. I just turned 37.

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, @Pheri-B.  It's nice to meet you.  I like your theory very much, and that is certainly something we all should try hard to accomplish.  IDK if it will end human suffering, but it certainly would end personal suffering.

 

I'm very glad to hear of the support you're getting from your partner.  If transition is your goal it will make things so much easier and less stressful.  I look forward to reading more posts from you.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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Welcome to the forum!! Self-love is truly something that is life changing when one finally achieves it. I look forward to getting to know you!

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Welcome Pheri-B! Glad you're here! So true, self love is the beginning of being able to love others as well for me. So glad you have the support of your partner! I hope you find the wonderful support, advice & acceptance here as I have.

 

Hugs!

Delcina 

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Thank you all. ✌️ look forward to diving into the forums more in the coming months!

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Welcome to the forum. Congrats on coming out to your family, I hope that continues to go well for you. Enjoy the forum and all that it, and it's members have to offer.

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Welcome @Pheri-B. Thank you for the positive message. As you learn to love yourself, you uplift others without even knowing it, like as a flower blooms it can't help but waft its fragrance. 

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Thank you all for the replies…

I’m at the tail end of the visit with family in which I had some tough conversations about this and it has been so intense and draining. My head is swirling right now.

 

looking forward to getting home and getting grounded again.

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