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Hi there, I just joined and will post my story as soon as I am fully approved. I am 44yo and started reviewing some personal stuff that I just ignored for several decades. Not sure if I fall under the trans umbrella or something else. Either way, at this point I feel like I need to write it down and get some external feedback from the community. I can already tell it´s going to be a long post. Hope to contribute soon. Thanks for now.

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9 minutes ago, Loki80 said:

I can already tell it´s going to be a long post. Hope to contribute soon. Thanks for now.

Welcome to Transgender Pulse Forums @Loki80

 

I look forward to reading you post no matter the length. If you're like me, writing it down for someone else to read, reflect and comment on. It's therapeutic and helps with the timeline of life.

 

Best wishes, stay positive, and motivated,

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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Thanks for the warm welcome, ladies.

 

In the bio, is it ok with the rules to mention genitals and sexual practices (briefly, factual terms/not obscene and for context)?

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Welcome and look forward to hearing more about you! I'm glad that you found us.

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We're a family friendly site with teenagers, so we want to keep it respectful. If you can tell your story without being graphic do so.

 

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MIndy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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Welcome to Transgender Pulse, @Loki80.  Like others have said, this is a great place to ask question, make comments, find information, and discuss nearly anything.  You'll see that as you explore the forums.  As @Mmindysaid, we aren't prudes, and even the younger members know what sex is and what genitalia is.  Sometimes it's important to mention those topics, as long as you keep it from becoming graphic.  Thank you.

 

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Welcome to TGP!!! There is so much information available here for you. Wander around, ask questions and jump in where you feel comfortable. We're glad you found us.

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