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Hi, so im pretty much new to this board, i found it while looking through another site like two days ago.

Im 16 years old, and im a crossdresser.

A little background on me...I like to experince things for myself, this is one of the reasons i crossdress. I dont like reading about things, i like doing them,

Well heres my story.

I cant really remember when i started dressing, i can only remember that it was some where around the 7th or 8th grade. I used to wake up at around 12 at night and change into my mothers clothes, she hardly ever used htem so i kept them hidden in my closet, it just really consisted of pantyhoes panties and a bra. After some time i advanced to her closet which had much more choice. And again i took the clothes which she never used, fortunatly for me at that time, we were about the same height. But one unfortunate day my sisters came into my room and started playing with my moms clothes(not the ones i had been hiding) when my mom cam to clean up, she found my stash...that evening my Dad, mom and i had a talk...and i was very ashamed. So i denied that i ever wanted to dress again, even though i was being given ample oppertunity to dress with my fathers permission.

So the second time i was caught, i was cleaning my basment with my my, now a few months earlier my dad kept 4 2 piece swimsuits there, now when my mom was cleananing she saw that 3 of them were missing, and asked me weather i knew where they were i said my dad took them with him on his trip to india...but i was a very bad liar at the time...fortunatly that incident was just kept between me and her.

(The next year we moved to india, where i am currently living)

The last time i was caught was in india, i slept on the top floor of our house, (our house is huge!! BTW) while the rest of my family slept downstairs. Now i had a secret stash of clothes hidden away in a dresser. I had a great 4 or 5 months dressed up whenever i got some spare time. Heck the reason i passed most of my term exams was because i dressed up as a teacher and started pretending like i was taking class. So my mom cam to clean my room and she finds my stash. So we have a talk again..and i deny that i will ever do it again...shame got the better of me...so here i am...

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Good morning, Caity! (well, it is here!)

Welcome to the playground, Honey!

Let me get you some coco and a plate of Sally's cookies....OK?

Now, let me tell you that we have a safe site here and we keep out the meanies...

We don't judge people and you can just be you!

I'll tell you that some of the others will be stopping by to say "Hi" in a bit.....OK?

Good...

Now, just relax and enjoy yourself...

****HUGG****

Donna Jean

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Hi Caity,

Welcome,

You said in your post you had your father's permission to dress, why don't you have a talk with them again to gain their support and understanding?

Rachael.

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Hi Caity

Welcome to the playground everyone is so nice here, so make yourself at home and look around and ask any questions you have.

Alyssa

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