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Guest Stacey Nicole

Hiya everyone! My name is Stacey Nicole and I'm one of the newest members...yay! A very dear friend of mine in Chicago said that I should look for support groups and she helped me find this site. I'm looking forward to hearing from anyone out there willing to share and making lots of friends. Talk to y'all soon! *hugs and kisses*

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Guest Alyssa Leigh

Hi Nicole

Welcome to the playground everyone is so nice here, so make yourself at home and more will be by soon to greet you.

Alyssa

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Hi, Stacey (or do you prefer Stacey Nicole?). A very lovely name.

Your friend was right to steer you in Laura's direction. This is a great site filled with the most amazing,

intelligent and sensitive people (she hurts her arm patting herself on the back)

Truly, we're a big family here, and we watch out for each other and support each other. You'll see for

yourself after a short while.

In the meantime, Donna Jean and Sally will be along with the welcome tray of cookies and cocoa, so

don't go away. Check out the forums and chat rooms, make friends, and please tell us more about

yourself. Welcome aboard.

Carolyn Marie

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Welcome Stacey usually Sally or DJ beats me to the introductions but i beat them this time.

Grab a chair at the table and I'll get us some ice tea and cookies, it's too warm for the coco, others will be around shortly to say hi.

HUGS!

Paula

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Guest ~Brenda~

Welcome Stacy!!

HUGS Sweetie. Welcome hon to Laura's Playground!! I am so glad that you have arrived!! Please know that you are welcome and are understood!! So, hon, read the forums and post to the forums. Learn all that you can! Laura's is where we all learn and better understand ourselves and each other!!!

Come in dear... You are now among friends

HUGS

Brenda

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Guest Stacey Nicole

Thank y'all so much! I'm originally from Louisiana and just moved to San Antonio this year. I'm hoping to begin my journey within the next year. I'm a service technician with Nissan, so if anyone needs advice with their car just send me an email....not just Nissan but others as well. lol

I'm currently studying computer programming so I can have a job that's less harmful to my delicate skin...*giggles*. I've been in the military for 15 years, but leaving that soon in light of my transition. I've known all my life nearly who I needed to be but have lost my way with 2 wives, but I would not trade my children for any amount of time I've lost being my true self.

Please feel free to ask me anything you'd like, I'm not usually open for obvious reasons so it would really warm my heart to be able to speak freely. *smiles brightly*

I already feel sooo welcomed...like never before. I'm very happy that I'm here now. Oh, btw, please simply call me Stacey. I'll respond to any of my names but I usually just go by Stacey.

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Guest Stacey Nicole
Welcome Stacy!!

HUGS Sweetie. Welcome hon to Laura's Playground!! I am so glad that you have arrived!! Please know that you are welcome and are understood!! So, hon, read the forums and post to the forums. Learn all that you can! Laura's is where we all learn and better understand ourselves and each other!!!

Come in dear... You are now among friends

HUGS

Brenda

Hugs back, Brenda...thank you. *tilts her head, beaming a smile*

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Guest Stacey Nicole
Welcome Stacey usually Sally or DJ beats me to the introductions but i beat them this time.

Grab a chair at the table and I'll get us some ice tea and cookies, it's too warm for the coco, others will be around shortly to say hi.

HUGS!

Paula

It's very nice to meet you and everyone else, hun. *hugs*

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Guest Stacey Nicole
Hi, Stacey (or do you prefer Stacey Nicole?). A very lovely name.

Your friend was right to steer you in Laura's direction. This is a great site filled with the most amazing,

intelligent and sensitive people (she hurts her arm patting herself on the back)

Truly, we're a big family here, and we watch out for each other and support each other. You'll see for

yourself after a short while.

In the meantime, Donna Jean and Sally will be along with the welcome tray of cookies and cocoa, so

don't go away. Check out the forums and chat rooms, make friends, and please tell us more about

yourself. Welcome aboard.

Carolyn Marie

Thank you, Carolyn...and careful with the patting! hehe *hugs*

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Hey Stacey,

Sorry I'm so late but I see that Paula got the refreshments cart out for you.

We are a very friendly support group and really a bug family - some of the others have already told you that.

I noticed that you are from LA originally and in TX now, one of my best friends here is from San Antonio and moved to near New Orleans so you two have just switched places - were there any other cities involved in the trade, cash up front or just future considerations and draft choices? :lol:

We like to have fun, the world is sometimes a scary place for us so we come here to vent, relax, get and give support.

love ya,

Sally

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Guest Donna Jean

Good morning, Hon.....

It's me, Donna Jean and I'm running a bit late as you can see!

I'd like to welcome you to the Playground.

I see that you've met some wonderful people already (the ONLY kind we have here!)

I hope that you're getting all settled in and finding things ok....

There is a lot to read here and the folks are very friendly as you 're seeing!

And Paula beat both Sally and I with the treats!...lol.I hope thet you enjoyed that!

It's so nice to have you here....

****BIGG HUGG****

Donna Jean

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Guest Stacey Nicole

Hiya Sally and DJ!!

Thank you for the welcome :-)! That's kinda ironic about your friend, Sally...lol. Actually, I could use a really good friend in San Antonio to help me find safe places to visit and have fun at. I'm not sure how long I'll be here, though. My current wife can't handle my transition and is planning to move back to Louisiana to be with her dad and my parents soon. My friend in Chicago would like me to move up there and stay with her and her gf until I can get on my feet there, which is something I'm considering greatly. But in the meanwhile, I'd like to find some folks here that I can relate to and be totally comfortable with being myself around.

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