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Guest NeverSayNever

  

38 members have voted

  1. 1. Which name suits me the best?

    • Stephen (pronounced how it's spelt)
      8
    • Marquis
      4
    • Nicholas
      14
    • Carl
      3
    • James
      12
    • Valtameri
      3
    • Edward
      8


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Guest AllisonD
Hmm..good idea.

Should I use it Edward James Lastname or James Edward Lastname. Which one do you think sounds better?

It depends entirely on your last name. What will your initials be? When I married Donna I had the option of taking her last name, which starts with an S. My initials would have been A S S. I chose to keep my maiden name.

Allison

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Depending on the last name I think That James Edward will give you the nick names that you will like better.

Edward James sounds very proper but James Edward is easier to say.

How was that for no help at all?

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hey Never,

I selected Nicholas, not sure why, just came out to me. I will tell you this when your name finds you, you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt.

HUGS

Brenda

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Guest NeverSayNever

Well, my last name begins with an A. So no weird initial things, I hope.

JEA or EAJ

:banghead: I can't decide.

LOL..can you tell I'm not a very decisive person?

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If you go with EJA people will call you Ejah (like Egypt with an a in place of the pt)

I like JEA.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Jean Davis

Personally I wouldn't worry about the initials that much (they don't spell out anything nasty)

The thing is what would you like to be called every day?

Would it be James or Edward? Lets try this.

HI Edward

Hi James

Which one sounds better to you? :D

Personally I like James :P

LUV

Jean Davis

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Guest NicolaiAE

LOL JEA!

That's cool! James Edward A. Sounds good to me.

But, like Brenda said, when your name finds you, it will be almost impossible to ignore.

-Nicolai

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I know how to sort this out.

At the next big party, which I believe will be on August 2nd - the First Anual Laura's Playground Offical Transgendered Pride Day or FALPOTPD just to add a bit of confusion - I will wait until we have a huge crowd and I will run into the room and shout, "Hey, James!"

If you turn around, that's your name. :)

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest NeverSayNever
I know how to sort this out.

At the next big party, which I believe will be on August 2nd - the First Anual Laura's Playground Offical Transgendered Pride Day or FALPOTPD just to add a bit of confusion - I will wait until we have a huge crowd and I will run into the room and shout, "Hey, James!"

If you turn around, that's your name. :)

Love ya,

Sally

LOL good plan!

LOL, I think we should have a big reunion thing. Where everyone comes :D

Probably wouldn't be possible, though, considering we're all from different countries :(

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Guest praisedbeherhooves
For a while now, I've been trying to decide on a name I can use for my male "side". There's quite a few that I like, and I'm not sure which one I like the best.

I'd post a picture to see which one suits me the most, but I haven't had my hair cut yet and I still look very feminine ¬¬

I have bright red hair (dyed) and I'm into the whole Goth/Punk thing. I'm quite a grumpy person sometimes (LOL) and I tend to get angry easily. I like anime and manga, reading and listening to music. I also love writing.

So, that's me in a nutshell, I hope that helps you understand what suits me the most.

OMG TWIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If I were to describe myself that would be it, except for the anger part and the hair, and I would say metalhead/goth, not goth/punk. Spooky. I picked Marquis because it makes me think of Marquis de Sade, the author of 120 Days of Sodom, which is in my opinion a good book, albeit a disturbing, violent, sexually explicit book.

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Guest Jean Davis

Say, when you pick your new name you have to start an introduction form.

Maybe you can get some more cookies and cocoa from sally and Donna Jean. :lol:

Just Kidding

Jean Davis

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Guest NeverSayNever
OMG TWIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If I were to describe myself that would be it, except for the anger part and the hair, and I would say metalhead/goth, not goth/punk. Spooky. I picked Marquis because it makes me think of Marquis de Sade, the author of 120 Days of Sodom, which is in my opinion a good book, albeit a disturbing, violent, sexually explicit book.

I've never heard of him before, I'm going to look him up XP

WOOT! Twin! LOL I'm working on the anger part. I'm becoming more chilled out XD which I hope is a good thing (it is for everyone around me anyway).

Say, when you pick your new name you have to start an introduction form.

Maybe you can get some more cookies and cocoa from sally and Donna Jean. :lol:

Just Kidding

Jean Davis

:lol: Do you reckon they'd notice it was me? ^_^

Kidding :P

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