Confusion?

[Guest Nire]

So now I'm seeing a therapist for a couple of sessions now and he's awesome. I told him that I might be neutrois and he suggested I might get rid of my genitals and I am actually kind of considering it.

But I guess my question would be what are the repercussions of a sexual person becoming asexual because if I go through with this I would most likely become asexual. I just don't know how I would react. He said I could still have romantic relationships though. But I read that His and Hers by Ryles_D and I'm like freaked out a little. If I like go through with this will I be like someone who commits suicide? And I suppose one of my bigger fears I suppose is I might be gendered or cisgendered and am wrong.

Whats with that anyway how can a Neutrois be sexual and still have a neutral gender?

Also is there such thing a bigendered: androgyne/neutrois?

and sorry about how weird and hard to understand this post probably is.

[Guest Pól]

Is neutrois necessarily asexual? Gender identity and sexual orientation aren't the same thing. Why can't you have a neutrois gender identity and a non-asexual orientation?

[Guest Nire]

Is neutrois necessarily asexual? Gender identity and sexual orientation aren't the same thing. Why can't you have a neutrois gender identity and a non-asexual orientation?

because I would pretty much loose all sex drive right?

[Guest Nire]

because I would pretty much loose all sex drive right?

from the loosing the genitals part not the neutrois identity part.

[Guest Ryles_D]

But I guess my question would be what are the repercussions of a sexual person becoming asexual because if I go through with this I would most likely become asexual. I just don't know how I would react. He said I could still have romantic relationships though. But I read that His and Hers by Ryles_D and I'm like freaked out a little. If I like go through with this will I be like someone who commits suicide? And I suppose one of my bigger fears I suppose is I might be gendered or cisgendered and am wrong.

Asexual is lacking sexual attraction. There are plenty of drugs to get your sex drive back to normal, and you'll need to take hormones of some sort anyways.

That story is about an asexual who didn't realize they were asexual and incapable of coming out to their SO and an SO who mistakenly assumed their partner would "get over it" after marriage. The pain on the sexual's part is that of thinking you're dating a sexual, only to find yourself in a sexless marriage with someone who can't stand to sleep with you. The pain on the asexual's part is the pain that comes from thinking you're normal, only to find that you're causing the person you love most to be miserable and you can't understand why. Also- neither of them commit suicide.

If you are asexual, and are fully aware that you're asexual, and are completely open with your partner(s), you'll avoid the heartache. The story is about why visibility is so important- not why a/s relationships with open and honest communications will never work, because they can work.

I know a highly sexual neutrois who fully transitioned. They were MTN and their surgeon left a functional clitoris, and anal is always an option.

Also is there such thing a bigendered: androgyne/neutrois?

Bigendered is typically male/female- but since it means 2-gendered, I figure it's possible that you can be bigendered with two non-binary genders.

[Guest Nire]

Asexual is lacking sexual attraction. There are plenty of drugs to get your sex drive back to normal, and you'll need to take hormones of some sort anyways.

I'm pretty sure I'm bi and was wondering it that would be a problem but I guess not. and wow I really should research more things.

I know a highly sexual neutrois who fully transitioned. They were MTN and their surgeon left a functional clitoris, and anal is always an option.

oh that sounds cool.

Bigendered is typically male/female- but since it means 2-gendered, I figure it's possible that you can be bigendered with two non-binary genders.

Thank you! you've helped clear a lot up thanks!

And it was a great story sorry I missed the point so badly.