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Guest Elizabeth K

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Lizzy!

Hey- I thought we just agreed to be girl friends! You should talk to me when you are feeling down :( I hope you feel better soon and return when you are able. I'll miss you very much

愛 Eth

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Guest Zenda

Kia Ora Lizzy,

You are 'young' enough to know that "Nothing is permanent!" Attachment will only bring sorrow ...

But in saying that "A break is as good as a holiday!" Time to charge up your batteries...Enjoy your break...

Metta Jendar :)

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Guest ~Brenda~

My Dear Dear Dearest Lizzy,

I can feel your sadness :(

We all go through time like these. We all get so emotionally involved here and with everyone. I know, I know.

Sweetie, I want you to know that you are a driving force here at Laura's. Lizzy, I cannot even begin to explain how you have helped me, how I owe so much to you. I love you.

Hon, I need you, we all need you. I am sure that Sally and Dee Jay are going to call you soon if not already.

I know that you are hurting. Gosh, I wish I could just sit beside you and hold you and just let you cry and cry.

Cry sweetheart, let it out.

We all love you. Never forget that.

Love you with all of my being

Brenda

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Lizzy,

Sweetheart,

You know that you can call me anytime - I hardly ever sleep.

I know how much it hurts when someone leaves we becaome so close to everyone here and it feels like we have failed them.

You have failed no one, sometimes people leave and we cannot change that it is all a part of life.

Life does flow like a river but much like in the small streams there are slower currents and eddies and then forks sometimes split off to go their seperate ways but in the end they all end up in the same ocean.

Take the time that you need but know that I am always here for you and Laura's will always need you.

Love ya,

Sally

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Lizzy i guess we should not get emotionally attached but we do because we are human, and thus we open our hearts to others and at some point we are bound to be hurt. I think Laura's would not be as successful as it is if we just approved posts and never posted to any of them and never pm anybody, i can see a pretty dull Site if we did that.

Take what time you need, please know you can pm me anytime.

HUGS!

Paula

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Guest van-na

Hi Lizzy,

<<<<< hugs >>>>>>

It is easy to get burned out. :unsure:

Maybe you just need a vacation . : :rolleyes:

If you feel the urge come over and chat sometimes. :)

We won't put you to work , you can just relax!! :P

:wub: vanna

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Guest Sydney_W

Take as much time as you need to. I hope you come back feeling refreshed.

Ahhh this place wouldn't be the same without ya. :unsure:

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Guest rachael1

In Australia the aboriginals call that "going on walkabout" it's supposed to be good for the soul.

See you when you return.

Hugs

Rachael

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  • Admin

Lizzy, we will miss your lovable, insightful and wacky posts. But I understand completely.

Most people in the business of helping others, be they law enforcement,

paramedics, psychologists, or doctors, suffer from emotional burnout

after a while. It is natural and almost unavoidable.

The solution is (that magic word again) therapy and time off.

Take as much time as you need, and then come back to us ready to

go with all your enthusiasm regained. In the meantime, we'll carry

on. We might even try some of your wackiness on for size :P

Love,

Carolyn Marie

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